Size – does it matter?
A lot of men worry about size. “Am I big enough?” And they think that woman want a larger size. My answer is always “Its not how big you are, its what you do with it that counts!”
Go into an adult shop. Most of the dildos and vibrators for women are average size. That’s what women want.
Think of cucumbers, fingers, bananas and other similar shaped phallic objects. Big does not mean better!
In fact, years ago I had a male friend who had a very large lingam. He told me that many women were frightened when they saw it. He was a very good lover. He took quite lot of time and effort to ensure that his lover was very relaxed before he could make love with her.
And there was another lover that thought he was too small, but his tongue more than made up for it!!!
So men, when you wish it was bigger, because you are worried about your performance, just learn how to satisfy a woman with your whole body (tongue, fingers, hands) – touching, teasing, stroking and pleasuring her all over and asking her permission (Are you ready for me?”) before you enter her.
Learn some Tantric techniques from my book “What Men and Women Really Want” about using your sexual energy to impress her and satisfy her more. Order HERE
And it’s often the size of your heart that impresses her more!!
