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Healing and Chariklo

Energetic Healing

As a spiritual energetic healer, I find not being able to use the magic of connecting by touch and massage to help people heal themselves a challenge.

At the end of March 2020 I was going to go on a holiday to India for 2 weeks, so my energy was in “relaxation mode”. Unfortunately I could not go away.

In April 2020 I am “back” from my “holiday” and I need to use this powerful unconditional love energy that runs through me for healing.

Chariklo

On 6 April I found out about Chariklo, the wife of Chiron. In Greek mythology Chiron was the wounded healer and Chariklo was his wife. She was a naiad (freshwater nymph). Chariklo means “graceful spinner”. She related to our sense of personal space, subtle body and astral travel.

Astrology

Astrologer Pam Gregory, in her You Tube presentation “Full Super Moon in Libra 7-8 April 2020”, says “Chariklo enables healing by holding sacred space. She helps us get in touch with the ever present Now, the eternal stillness, permanence. We can just drop into and take ourselves out of stressful 3D situations. So she is helpful to us now. She is also a Soul midwife – transitions between life and death, and transitions of consciousness.”

David Leskowitz, another astrologer, in his article “Crafting a Future with the Centaur’s Cosmic Sandpaper: 2020 Transits of Chiron, Pholus and Chariklo” says “The daughter of Apollo, Chariklo is a naiad (fresh-water nymph) and wife of Chiron. In one of her myths she is a temple priestess of Vesta. Meaning “Graceful Spinner”, Chariklo relates to our sense of personal space, subtle body, and astral travel. Together with her partner Chiron, she guides us on the path of healing and awakening. An astrological keyword for Chariklo is charisma, or the bestowing of grace.” And also “Chariklo, Cosmic medicine-woman & The Stellium of 2020 when the infamous Saturn-Pluto conjunction strikes, Chariklo is there to lead the way forward as natural guide of boundaries. As a Centaur who orbits beyond Saturn and in resonance with Uranus, Chariklo represents the expansion of self that can follow the process of individuation.”

The key for me is “Chariklo enables healing by holding sacred space”. I like to create space in which something is allowed to heal. I have been doing this with Tantric Massage and Coaching and Counselling for many years.

In the last six months, I have been doing more Transformational Relationship Consultations for people who want to change their relationships – with themselves, with others, (in love sex or intimacy). I have had success with people who have had ED, fear of relationships, healed emotional mental and spiritual blocks.

So now I am offering online Transpersonal Relationship Consultation sessions on Zoom, discounted by 50%, until 30 April 2020.

  •  Transformational Relationship Coaching and Consultation program – usually $250 per hour
    x 5 weekly sessions or $1000 paid in full in advance in person (when possible). More details HERE
    Online using Zoom, or by phone = $125 per hour or $500 for 5 session program until 30 April 2020.
  • Payment can be by direct deposit, eftpos, VISA or MasterCard.
  • Payment plans are also available for full program of 5 sessions.

Make your booking on my Booking Page.

Chariklo – the partner of Chiron & Lady Shaman

Tantra is tuning into your spiritual energy

Tantra is tuning into your spiritual energy

Your body is a portal or gateway through which you can tune into your spiritual energy.spiritual energy My Tantra Massage

Tantric breathwork, Kundalini energy, pranic breathing and some yoga and meditation practices have in common that they can awaken or open portals to other dimensions.

When your mind body and spirit are aligned, controlled and directed with spiritual ascension or enlightened intention, then your energy flows.

  • Conscious Breathing releases and relaxes mind chatter;
  • Touch and connection stimulates and satisfies the body’s sensual cravings;
  • And Spirit soars with the balance between thoughts and feelings – uplifted with unconditional love energy from your heart chakra.

One can direct or lead another to reach these places and spaces, with trust, instruction, energy and vibrational transmission. And the Receiver will transcend to the level of their experience. Some have a pleasant experience, some physical ecstasy, some mystical and others truly tantric full body orgasms or out of body experiences and spiritual energy orgasms.

When I tune in to the Love Grid and ask for love, light and healing for the person I am giving a Tantra Pleasure Experience, I open my energy as a clear channel to receive the flow of unconditional love into that person. Healing can be physical, mental, emotional or spiritual. The energy goes to where it is needed. Reiki energy flows with heat and strength, filling me up with its powerful healing, healing me, then overflowing into the person to heal their wounds and fill them with unconditional love.

I call it Tantric spiritual energy. It has no name really. It has a flow and never ceases. It can be very strong, hot and insistent. And it can be extremely soft, gentle and light. Always healing. Always unconditionally loving. And the empty spaces inside us that have been lonely and separated and unloved are filled up, connected and energised with the most beautiful feeling in the world: LOVE.

Ally

30/4/18

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To tune into your tantric spiritual energy with a Tantra Pleasure Experience for Men, Women or Couples today bookings HERE

Poem – Swingers Addicted to Sex

SYDNEY SWINGERS ADDICTED TO SEX

He told me he was horny
and loves to pleasure women
hear the sounds of love
linked in a group of men.

Exploring the couples swingers club
reviewing potential matches
late one December night
we fantasised which one was right.

Then downstairs to get naked
join gods and goddesses in the spa
we chatted and teased each other
and 6 got out to explore “aaaah!”

We watched her give him head
suspended on a special swing
but hands and tongues were wandering
turned on by that sexy thing…

The bed was raised inside 3 walls
the walls had big wide slits
Voyeurs could watch us writhing and moaning
invisible, excited and thrilled to bits!

“We don’t need those men”
she whispered in my ear
so we kissed and thrilled each other
turning each other on–“ooh, ooh, ooh, my dear!”

Back to the tub to refresh
bodies to relax and wash
start stroking again, caught kisses
exploring fingers and tongues–“my gosh!”

We went to the room at the end
with mattresses covering the floor
a group was joined by others
and an orgy of 10 was explored.

Couples joined in 3s and 4s
all exploring mouths, pusses and cocks
teasing and licking and fucking
sharing pleasure without keys and locks.

And finally the swingers night was over
our passions and energy spent
we wondered where the night went
and recalled each exciting event…

Voyeurs and exhibitionists were stimulated
in all senses and many ways teased
we both had fun with each other
and ended up satisfied and well pleased!!

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Tantra Practice Playshop in Brisbane

Tantra practice playshop

Come along to a Tantra Practice Playshops in Brisbane

7pm-11pm

$70 for couple, $50 for men, $30 for women* (includes Supper)

FAQs – see below

Testimonials for TPP – below

  • Connect, learn and practise tantric techniques and exercises in safe space
  • Give and receive touch safely – without agenda, with boundaries
  • Have fun, make connections with like minded people
  • For singles, friends and couples

We endeavour to have each Tantra Practice Playshop gender balanced, so if you bring a friend of the opposite sex, you are more likely to be accepted, as sometimes there is a Waiting List. Couples can be friends to maintain the gender balance.

Playshops are held monthly on Saturdays in Adelaide, and in other cities by request as available. Ally will be in Brisbane on 12 December 2018, so this Playshop is specially available then. She has previously organised Playshops in Brisbane on 31 August 2017 and 31 August 2018.

You do not have to have Tantric experience, just be open minded and willing to learn.

  • Expand your tantric knowledge and Tantra practice
  • Have fun doing Tantra exercises with different people
  • Practise how to move your sexual energy through your body
  • Learn how to connect with your self (spiritual), your body, and others
  • How to create and improve intimacy
  • Easily learn about how to set boundaries
  • Enjoy safe loving consensual touch
  • Expand your spiritual energy with sensual awareness

This Playshop is for open-minded men women and couples to learn and practise tantra and other sacred sexuality practices and have fun in a safe sacred space that’s playful gentle healing and respectful.
All exercises are safe, with consensual touch and CLOTHED.
You will be guided through some of the following: tantric exercises, meditation, body work, touch, energy movement, breath, dancing, massage

There is no nudity, no alcohol; no drugs and no sex intercourse involved.

** Delicious healthy Supper, juices and soft drinks provided (let us know if you have any dietary needs).

BOOKINGS ESSENTIAL, preferably to Ally, as numbers are limited

BOOK HERE with your contact details – email with Tantra Practice Playshop in Subject Line

TESTIMONIALS:

Last night was just perfect. Thank you Ally (Adelaide 2017)

We enjoyed last night very much. (couple Adelaide 2017)

Hi Ally,
I just wanted to thank you for inviting me you your recent tantra night (2014). What an amazing evening!
Being a first timer, I wasn’t too sure what to expect, however, the positive energy and inner happiness I felt from doing the various exercises and sharing each moment was unbelievable.
Such a lovely group of people to spend an evening with and a great supper too!!!
Thanks ally, see you soon,
Namaste, K Adelaide

Blessings Ally.
I cannot thank you enough for the beautiful space which was created last night (March 2013) and the safety and energy in which it was provided and given to us as a group. I was deeply enriched by the experience and when I sent forth the energy, sent it home in the direction of my husband. When I returned late in the evening, He desired me so fully that the love making which followed was energetic and encapsulating. It coursed through us like a river of magic through our spiritual beings. Heaven found herself in our arms and we were blessed with her presence.
Thank you for taking a chance with having me along (when you knew little of me) and I look forward to spending more evenings with yourself and others, in the sacred provision of life shared, explored and discovered.
Namaste. D Adelaide

“Hi Ally. I’d like to thank you again for the opportunity and lovely night (March 2013), it was incredible. You and Peter created a warm, safe and loving space where I actually felt more free, cared for and able to express myself in ways that would generally make me feel quite anxious. The other guests were all beautiful people and added to this environment, making it a wonderful night. I’ve never felt so connected to another individual in such a short space of time, it was a very positive and uplifting experience. During the night I felt my confidence increase, which has continued, and I feel things can only improve over time. I certainly learnt a lot, not just about tantra, a little overwhelming to be honest.
Again thank you, you’ve been an excellent guide. Looking forward to the next one. J (Adelaide)”

“I’d like to say thank you for being a wonderful facilitator/group leader Ally – you’re a highly skilled, professional Tantra Woman & you held the group beautifully. You created a safe space for people to relax into the practices. Gold Star to Ally!
The whole experience was so uplifting, lately I have been stressed out!
I thought all the people there were exceptional – beautiful with positive energies! Yeah it was a great night and one to remember !
When’s the next one ?” (Adelaide)

FAQ

Are the men clean, honest, quality, respectful, safe, friendly and normal?

Yes. I have personally checked every ‘single man’ who attends the Tantra Playshops in Adelaide. The pre-requisite is for men to have had at least one Tantra Pleasure Experience or Tantra session with me. They may be a bit shy, under confident or over confident though…
In Brisbane they have been recommended by Marilyn…

Will the women be positive, pleasant, open and friendly?

Yes they are personally vetted by me and open minded and friendly. However they may be a bit worried about feeling safe, and that their boundaries are respected.

The Couples who attend – are they safe, sharing, open and friendly?

In Adelaide, Couples are required to complete a Questionnaire and some have had sessions with me.

Do you have to join in with everything?

You can choose whether you do an exercise or not. You can set boundaries so that you are safe

What limits or boundaries are available?

You set your own boundaries and limits.
eg touching only on exposed skin. Touching arms face head is OK etc.  Touch must be light and gentle. Please massage my shoulders firmly. Please don’t touch my head/hair! Please don’t touch my breasts. You can touch and stroke my lower arms and hands.

Is everyone married or in a relationship or single and available?

Some people have partners, and are here with them, some are not. Agreements are made between partners about limits and boundaries for each other.
Singles aren’t necessarily looking for a relationship. The Tantra Playshops are not about pairing people up, it’s about practicing Tantra with a partner, which may or may not be yours.
At the beginning of the party everyone tells the whole group their status, boundaries and agreements.

Will there be more men than women at the Tantra Practice Playshop?

No. Every party we endeavour to have gender balanced with equal numbers of men and women. You can choose to be with a woman or man in some of the exercises.

Do I have to take my clothes off?

Some people may take some of their clothes off because they get hot, however full nudity is not involved. You choose your level of comfort and clothing. You need to be OK with others partial nakedness, however no more than you see on any beach in summer!

What are the ages of people attend a Tantra Practice Playshop?

All age groups are welcome, and each Playshop has different attendees, however most people are between 30 and 50.

Contact Ally to book your place

email or book or to go on mailing list for these Playshops and other Events.

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Tantric Actions for better Sex

Five Tantric Actions for Better Sex

Why Tantric Sex?

  • To connect
  • To create intimacy
  • To turn on
  • To stimulate
  • To control.

    2. Conscious Breathing to create intimacy

  • Ask your partner to breath out and make a sound – a moan or aaah….
  • Breathe with them and harmonise your breathing. One person may be slower or faster than the other at the beginning.
  • Do this for about 2 minutes
  • When you harmonise you can hear it
  • Swap over and your partner follows your breathing

    2. Eye Gazing to connect

  • Sit together, facing each other, without talking and look in each others eyes for about 5 minutes
  • Feel the love in your heart for your lover
  • Breathe together, decide who will follow and who will lead

    3. Physically turn yourself on

  • As you breathe in, do your Kegels (squeeze your Pelvic Floor or PC muscles)
  • Release as you breathe out
  • Do this for about 5 minutes separately, then do it together
  • To get your energy and juices flowing

    4. Leather and Lace circle – to stimulate

  • Breathe together, sitting holding hands, eyes open or closed
  • HE gives his “leather” (male energy) – breathing up from his genitals to her heart down to her genitals across to yours
  • SHE gives her “lace” – (female energy) – from your heart to his heart and down to his genitals, across to her genitals and up to her heart.
  • This is good to do in yab yum – sitting with legs out or bent and genitals touching
  • rocking back and forwards – very stimulating and a great way to start making love

5. Control your energy

  • Continue conscious breathing together
  • When lingam* is inside yoni**, keep the energy flowing in a circle…

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* lingam = penis                        ** yoni = vagina

  • Stop when necessary to keep control, or change position.
  • Enjoy!

 For more ideas on how to use Tantra and simple practical Tantric techniques to enhance your sex life, see my book “What Men and Women Really Want – 6 Tantric Love Secrets” available now in paperback. Order here.

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Tantric Sex Coach

What does a Tantric Sex Coach do? First of all, what is Tantra? What is Tantric Sex? Why do you need a Coach?

Everyone loves sex, but how do we learn about it? if you are lucky you learn from an older partner, or a more experienced lover. Most people learn from their peers, as teenagers, using the “trial and error” method.

Some people want to improve their sex life. Many men want to learn control so they can last longer and pleasure their lover longer.

A lot of women don’t know how to “turn themselves on” sexually – how to tune in to their feminine sexual energy or how to really enjoy making love  with their partner.

Tantra

Tantra comes from ancient India. Taoist teachings from ancient China are similar to Tantra. The word Tantra means to expand and weave. That’s what you learn to do – expand your sexual energy and weave it around your body and between you and your partner.

Tantric Sex

Tantric Sex is that close connection you have that can lead to out-of-body ecstatic orgasmic sex and pleasure that seems to last for ever. It can take you to other places, other spaces, and an expanded sense of beingness. Many people have tried to explain it, but the experience is beyond words, beyond description. You know that you have been “out there” or “in there” or “away somewhere” because you feel yourself “coming back”!

How do you create that connection? How can you do that, step by step, whenever you want? Tantric techniques are the answer. Breathing, moving, and consciously being present with your self and your partner, are some of the keys.

Tantric Sex Coach

A Tantric Sex Coach guides and teaches you (and your partner) Tantric exercises so that you can get to those heights. Men can learn to control their orgasm and ejaculation so they can have multiple orgasms. Women can learn how to get in touch with their sexual energy and enhance it to relax and enjoy more pleasure making love.

Coaching in intimacy and sexuality is more than teaching you how to have mind-blowing sex! It’s more about Sex Ed – education about your sex organs, how your sexual energy works, and about what YOU like best. It’s about loving yourself, self pleasuring, learning new strokes for your partner, and much more…

It’s breathing together to create closer intimacy and connection. Tantra can be very healing on many levels.

So what are you waiting for? Book your session with Ally, Tantric Sex Coach, today to enhance your sex life, ignite your passion and have more joy and blissful pleasure.

Tantric Sex Coach Ally Thomas Adelaide

Sex Secret – Connection

Sex Secret Connection

Both men and women tell me they haven’t had sex or made love with their spouse for 6 moths, 12 months, 2 years, 5 years…sex secret connection kissing couple

It is so sad that people who love each other and have a wonderful sex life and then something happens and it’s gone. Something kills the desire and after awhile you could feel that you don’t “need” sex or love making.

How did you reconnect and reignite that desire for your lover?

  • Go back to the beginning of relationship and talk about it.   What attracted you to your partner when you first met them? Tell them. And ask them what first attracted them to you? Talk about your first date, your first kiss, your first lovemaking. What was special?
    Why you still together?
    Rekindle that spark of love that grew into a fire and kept burning for so many years. If your children are grown up and left you need to rediscover your partner.
    Everyone goes through changes. In teenagers, testosterone and progesterone hormones are strong stimulants, however as we mature they change many peoples’ desires. And in some couples one person, usually the man, maintains a strong need for release from sexual tension.
    Women’s desires often decrease after childbirth and child care because they put so much time into mothering and nurturing.
    So how to rekindle the passion and connect with your lover?
  • Plan a date night, flirt with each other by text or phone or love notes (under her pillow, in his pocket). Give surprise gifts for no occasion.
  • Plan a “dirty weekend” away. Ask her what would she need to happen to make  love? Ask him to give you a gentle massage. Tell him how you really like to be touched, kissed, licked and stroked. Tell her and show her how you like to be stroked on your lingam – fast or slow, gentle or firm, the special sensitive spots…
  • Have some lessons in cunnilingus or Tantra or massage together.
  • Role play or dress up in a costume for your lover. Imagine you are Casanova or Marilyn Munro; Cleopatra and Antony; or porn stars – John Holmes, Debbie Does Dallas! What do you imagine they would say or do to their beloved? Talk about it with your lover. Ask if they want to do it. Ask if it turns them on more to talk about it, look at it, plan it, or to do it?!
  • Give your genitals names. Then they can have a discussion. Using this analogy of a different identity can help you express things that you wouldn’t normally say. Ask her what she wants. Ask him what are you would like to do. The answers often surprise you!

When you reconnect and reawaken that desire for your beloved – you do it deliberately. And when you do you say to each other “I’d forgotten how good it was to have sex and make love!”

That is the sex secret connection!

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