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Sacred Burlesque Playshops

in Adelaide

Bring out your playful goddess and hidden feminine energy while dancing up a storm with a bunch of women in a supportive fun environment with Ally Thomas, Adelaide’s womens Tantra goddess

Learn how to slowly and seductively remove your clothes to turn on your lover and your self… (And an audience… if you choose!)

2 evenings of fun, sensual dance and movement for women only
Bring a girl friend for a fun evening!

Ally has had burlesque and strip tease experience in New Zealand, NSW and Queensland!
More details and photos in her book “What Men and Women Really Want”. Order HERE

Tuesday 26 November 2019 – Sacred Burlesque Playshop part 1
7-9pm Private venue in Unley. Limited numbers
Music and moves
$60 Bring a girl friend for free! (includes sinful supper and champagne or bubbly)

Tuesday 10 December 2019 – Sacred Burlesque Playshop part 2
7-9pm Private venue in Unley. Limited numbers
Timing and choreography
$60 Bring a girl friend for free! (includes sinful supper, champagne or bubbly)

Book and pay for both nights $100 for 2 …

Practice, practice, practice

Performance – Burlesque Party – Friday 17 January 2020

7pm-midnight.
Would you like to perform for a party!
BYO drinks & a plate of food to share
Bring your partner and your friends for a party night of burlesque fun. Dress up or dress down.
Contact Ally for more details…

Ally Thomas

phone Ally 0419 038 310 or email ally@mytantramassage.com.au for bookings and more details or see Contact Page.

Sacred Feminine Playshops in Brisbane

Sacred Feminine Playshops in Brisbane

CALLING ALL WOMEN!Sacred Feminine Playshop Brisbane

Explore your Sacred Feminine energy in my Sensuality Love and Intimacy Playshop in Brisbane on 11 December 2018.

Sacred Feminine sessions are to educate and empower women about sacred sexuality, and help heal shame, guilt and fear with sensuality and love.

  • Do you want to tune into your Sacred Feminine Energy?
  • Empower your spiritual energy? Open your heart to love and radiance
  • To learn more about spiritual sacred energy and how to enhance it more?
  • Use Tantric breathwork for grounding, moving your energy, unblock your chakras to heal and energize
  • Connect with your spiritual guides and angels
  • Reconnect magic, passion, feel deep love and powerful female energy
  • Use meditation, dance, movement and Tantric techniques to tune into your unique divine energy

These Playshops have previously been held in Adelaide, Rockhampton, Brisbane, Hobart, and in April 2017 about 60 women attended one at the Nyari Niara (Good Spirits) Festival on Bruny Island.

Using exercises from her book, ‘What Men and Women Really Want – 6 Tantric Love Secrets”, Ally includes meditation, dance, movement and fun easy spiritual exercises and techniques to give you a taste of Tantra, to tune into your Sacred Feminine energy and use them in your life to love yourself more.

  • Tuesday 11 December from 7pm-9pm – Sacred Feminine Evening – Spiritual Energy Orgasm. This informative and experiential Playshop includes a healthy light supper, meditation, dance, movement and fun easy spiritual exercises. Tune into your feminine energy and learn how to weave and expand it to enhance your feminine Tantric experience and love yourself. You can also learn how to have an orgasm without touching yourself!
    Venue TBA Brisbane
    Maximum 10 ladies. Wear comfy trousers. $50 each. Book HERE.
  • Book now $50 if paid in advance by 16/11/18 (eftpos, PayPal or DD, VISA and MasterCard add 3% fees) or $60 by 10/12/18.

* Sacred Feminine Evenings have been held in Adelaide, Brisbane (in 2014), Rockhampton in 2014 and Hobart in 2016.
They can be provided anywhere you can gather a minimum of 6 ladies – then you have yours free! Contact Ally to arrange your date now

sacred Feminine workshops with Ally

Tantra Practice Playshop in Brisbane

Tantra practice playshop

Come along to a Tantra Practice Playshops in Brisbane

7pm-11pm

$70 for couple, $50 for men, $30 for women* (includes Supper)

FAQs – see below

Testimonials for TPP – below

  • Connect, learn and practise tantric techniques and exercises in safe space
  • Give and receive touch safely – without agenda, with boundaries
  • Have fun, make connections with like minded people
  • For singles, friends and couples

We endeavour to have each Tantra Practice Playshop gender balanced, so if you bring a friend of the opposite sex, you are more likely to be accepted, as sometimes there is a Waiting List. Couples can be friends to maintain the gender balance.

Playshops are held monthly on Saturdays in Adelaide, and in other cities by request as available. Ally will be in Brisbane on 12 December 2018, so this Playshop is specially available then. She has previously organised Playshops in Brisbane on 31 August 2017 and 31 August 2018.

You do not have to have Tantric experience, just be open minded and willing to learn.

  • Expand your tantric knowledge and Tantra practice
  • Have fun doing Tantra exercises with different people
  • Practise how to move your sexual energy through your body
  • Learn how to connect with your self (spiritual), your body, and others
  • How to create and improve intimacy
  • Easily learn about how to set boundaries
  • Enjoy safe loving consensual touch
  • Expand your spiritual energy with sensual awareness

This Playshop is for open-minded men women and couples to learn and practise tantra and other sacred sexuality practices and have fun in a safe sacred space that’s playful gentle healing and respectful.
All exercises are safe, with consensual touch and CLOTHED.
You will be guided through some of the following: tantric exercises, meditation, body work, touch, energy movement, breath, dancing, massage

There is no nudity, no alcohol; no drugs and no sex intercourse involved.

** Delicious healthy Supper, juices and soft drinks provided (let us know if you have any dietary needs).

BOOKINGS ESSENTIAL, preferably to Ally, as numbers are limited

BOOK HERE with your contact details – email with Tantra Practice Playshop in Subject Line

TESTIMONIALS:

Last night was just perfect. Thank you Ally (Adelaide 2017)

We enjoyed last night very much. (couple Adelaide 2017)

Hi Ally,
I just wanted to thank you for inviting me you your recent tantra night (2014). What an amazing evening!
Being a first timer, I wasn’t too sure what to expect, however, the positive energy and inner happiness I felt from doing the various exercises and sharing each moment was unbelievable.
Such a lovely group of people to spend an evening with and a great supper too!!!
Thanks ally, see you soon,
Namaste, K Adelaide

Blessings Ally.
I cannot thank you enough for the beautiful space which was created last night (March 2013) and the safety and energy in which it was provided and given to us as a group. I was deeply enriched by the experience and when I sent forth the energy, sent it home in the direction of my husband. When I returned late in the evening, He desired me so fully that the love making which followed was energetic and encapsulating. It coursed through us like a river of magic through our spiritual beings. Heaven found herself in our arms and we were blessed with her presence.
Thank you for taking a chance with having me along (when you knew little of me) and I look forward to spending more evenings with yourself and others, in the sacred provision of life shared, explored and discovered.
Namaste. D Adelaide

“Hi Ally. I’d like to thank you again for the opportunity and lovely night (March 2013), it was incredible. You and Peter created a warm, safe and loving space where I actually felt more free, cared for and able to express myself in ways that would generally make me feel quite anxious. The other guests were all beautiful people and added to this environment, making it a wonderful night. I’ve never felt so connected to another individual in such a short space of time, it was a very positive and uplifting experience. During the night I felt my confidence increase, which has continued, and I feel things can only improve over time. I certainly learnt a lot, not just about tantra, a little overwhelming to be honest.
Again thank you, you’ve been an excellent guide. Looking forward to the next one. J (Adelaide)”

“I’d like to say thank you for being a wonderful facilitator/group leader Ally – you’re a highly skilled, professional Tantra Woman & you held the group beautifully. You created a safe space for people to relax into the practices. Gold Star to Ally!
The whole experience was so uplifting, lately I have been stressed out!
I thought all the people there were exceptional – beautiful with positive energies! Yeah it was a great night and one to remember !
When’s the next one ?” (Adelaide)

FAQ

Are the men clean, honest, quality, respectful, safe, friendly and normal?

Yes. I have personally checked every ‘single man’ who attends the Tantra Playshops in Adelaide. The pre-requisite is for men to have had at least one Tantra Pleasure Experience or Tantra session with me. They may be a bit shy, under confident or over confident though…
In Brisbane they have been recommended by Marilyn…

Will the women be positive, pleasant, open and friendly?

Yes they are personally vetted by me and open minded and friendly. However they may be a bit worried about feeling safe, and that their boundaries are respected.

The Couples who attend – are they safe, sharing, open and friendly?

In Adelaide, Couples are required to complete a Questionnaire and some have had sessions with me.

Do you have to join in with everything?

You can choose whether you do an exercise or not. You can set boundaries so that you are safe

What limits or boundaries are available?

You set your own boundaries and limits.
eg touching only on exposed skin. Touching arms face head is OK etc.  Touch must be light and gentle. Please massage my shoulders firmly. Please don’t touch my head/hair! Please don’t touch my breasts. You can touch and stroke my lower arms and hands.

Is everyone married or in a relationship or single and available?

Some people have partners, and are here with them, some are not. Agreements are made between partners about limits and boundaries for each other.
Singles aren’t necessarily looking for a relationship. The Tantra Playshops are not about pairing people up, it’s about practicing Tantra with a partner, which may or may not be yours.
At the beginning of the party everyone tells the whole group their status, boundaries and agreements.

Will there be more men than women at the Tantra Practice Playshop?

No. Every party we endeavour to have gender balanced with equal numbers of men and women. You can choose to be with a woman or man in some of the exercises.

Do I have to take my clothes off?

Some people may take some of their clothes off because they get hot, however full nudity is not involved. You choose your level of comfort and clothing. You need to be OK with others partial nakedness, however no more than you see on any beach in summer!

What are the ages of people attend a Tantra Practice Playshop?

All age groups are welcome, and each Playshop has different attendees, however most people are between 30 and 50.

Contact Ally to book your place

email or book or to go on mailing list for these Playshops and other Events.

tantra practice playshops

Bali 2017

Bali Holiday, Meditation, Kundalini Yoga and NLP Retreat in June-July 2017

Ally’s Chill out relaxing Holiday in Northern Bali in JuneAlly in temple dress, Bali 2017

I had a relaxing holiday in Bali – first  3 days with my Balinese family at their home stay in northern Bali.

On the way to northern Bali I visited Besakih, the mother temple, which was built in the 8th Century. Jof drove us through delightful Balinese towns and countryside and cool lush green rainforest, and it was high up on the mountain, with a wonderful view. I got some incense, flowers and matches from local women for the offering. My guide was Wayan and he showed me around, took lots of photos of me all around the temple complex. When we finally got to the place where we could pray he indicated the lady priest (who had a Mickey Mouse t-shirt on with her sarong!)

I stayed with my Balinese sister Dewi and her family for 3 days to relax. While I was there, Dewi introduced me to her spiritual teacher, Jro Tapakan, who is a priest in her town. He had lived in USA so he spoke good English and we had an interesting talk about our common interests of healing and teaching.

I had a relaxing Balinese massage, pedicure and had flowers painted on my toenails, enjoyed the local seafood at local warungs (restaurants) and read my book in the sunshine. I was honoured to be invited to attend a Balinese ceremony at a local temple where the goddess Durga healed many people, including giving me a powerful healing energy boost!

I got up before dawn one morning to go out on a local fishing boat at Lovina to see the dolphins play. The sunrise was magnificent – saw the rays of the sun glorious over the island of Bali. Delighted in seeing a dolphin jump out of the water, turn a complete somersault and dive back in! That is engraved in my mind – it was too quick to take a photo!

When we got back to Lovina there were 3 gorgeously beautiful Balinese dancers, and I danced with 2 of them and also had my photo taken with them. I sketched one of the dancers.

Ally with Balinese dancers, Lovina, Bali 2017
Ally with Balinese dancers, Lovina, Bali 2017

Jof drove me to the Banjar Buddhist Temple. The last time I was there 2 yeas ago they were building a pagoda. It’s now finished – with pink lotus flowers around the base and a pond with waterlilies and dragon bridges to get inside. Inside was dedicated to the Goddess Quan Yin, goddess of compassion. Next we went to Banjar Hot Springs for a swim in the pool and lunch. I bought a lovely white lace kebayah at the market there.

Inner Growth Retreat Bali 29 June-6 July 2017

Dewi took me to Villa Boreh on Friday 30 June for 7 day Inner Growth Retreat – joining meditation, Kundalini Yoga and NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) in Tejakula on the northern coast of Bali. Unlimited massages were very welcome, and, l like the others on Retreat, I took advantage of them, having a Balinese or Aromatherapy massage nearly every day in the massage building surrounded with water fountains. The weather was warm and balmy, food organic and delicious, and I made some new friends of the participants on the Retreat who were all from South Australia.

Peter teaching in beautiful Seminar Room, Villa Boreh, Bali 2017
Peter teaching in beautiful Seminar Room, Villa Boreh, Bali 2017

Every day we got up at 6:30am quick shower and from 7am to 7:45 we did meditation with Peter; then Mardi led us to do Kundalini Yoga till 8:30am then we enjoyed breakfast. From 9:30am to 12:30pm we did powerful NLP processes. Ate healthy organic lunch outside in the sun at 1pm. We had some afternoons free and could have unlimited massages and beauty treatments (like coffee body scrubs). So every day for the first 3 days I had a one hour massage, and one day I had 1-1/2 hour massage! Then we had dinner by the sea at sunset at 6:15pm, then meditation from 7.30pm to about 8.30pm, then we all went to bed!

I enjoyed learning the different methods of meditation, however my legs ached so much which distracted me from meditating properly because I’m not used to sitting cross legged OR sitting still. Also I have a belief that stillness meditation is a male thing. The goddess energy has to move and flow like water… So the solution could be to get a foldup meditation stool. We did a couple of walking meditations as well, which I liked.

I liked the gentle movement and breathing of Mardi’s Kundalini Yoga – as long as I didn’t do too much energetic breathing, cos it made me too light headed!

The NLP processes, most of which I have done years ago, were focused on one area in the Wheel of Life that we wanted to work with. We looked at our values, negative emotions (and dissolved some of them), generative beliefs, limiting beliefs (and changed them [without telling others what they were]), goals and identities… and all came out with a positive result at the end… Very powerful and very healing.

Semkupal waterfalls

We also went to visit the Semkupal waterfalls, visited local salt works, a local weaver and indigo dyer and bought a lovely indigo dyed batik sarong. At the end of the Retreat we participated in a special Lantern ceremony on the beach.

The next day after our final morning and lunch, Dewi and her family picked me up to drive me to Sanur. That’s her Mum, Dad, cousin Ketut who drove the vehicle, nephew Marvin and her children Jivan and Ayu. The car was very quiet when we went over the mountain – everyone besides me and the driver were asleep! We stopped at Bas Coffee Plantation on the way to have coffee (even the children had coffee) and I bought some vanilla beans and turmeric. They took me to Sanur Beach and we took lots of photos of each other, then left me at my homestay. On my final day I had breakfast and then walked along Sanur Beach taking photos. Dewi and Ketut picked me up and took me to Krisna store to get some t-shirts and then to the airport.

I love Bas coffee plantation in Bali

So come and have a special “Balinese healing session” with me soon to warm up these cold winter days! Book now

Some drawings I have done in Bali:

Shakti’s Cave – Part 3

Shakti’s Cave – Part 3

written by Shiva at Mt Arunachala in India

At the back of Shakti’s cave there is a small alcove. I did not see at first, and it is as if it has just appeared. I see that standing within it is a very beautiful, very old and ornate lingam and yoni statue, all black and shiny, glistening from the fire’s flames.

Shakti now moves slowly over to the alcove in her slow rhythmic dance, and as she starts to dance to the lingam, so I can only see her from behind. She holds it with both hands while she sways from side to side, slowly moving up and down, her hands also lovingly adoringly moving up and down its full length. She hums and sings the most beautifully enchanting sounds and songs, in praise of its power.

She adorns its base with sweet jasmine flowers that she plucks from her hair, bowing down in honour of its strength, its life-giving force.

***

From behind she is the most beautiful sight to behold. She lifts up her skirt to around her waist and slowly slowly and she still holds the lingam with both hands she seductively, sensually lowers herself down exposing her yoni’s pouting lips to me. She looks over her shoulder at me, looking straight into my eyes, making erotic sounds of pleasure and delight.

I bow down with both arms outstretched to touch the floor. Chanting the words “Om Namah Shivaya!” I honour her in all of her divinity, worshipping the male, the glory of the god.

“Om Shakti Hum”

to be continued …

Shakti's Cave firedance

 

 

Shakti’s Cave – part 2

Shakti’s Cave – Part 2

written by Shiva at Mt Arunachala in India

Shakti reappears…

Now she is holding an ancient bell which she holds to her heart between her naked breasts, and she chimes it 9 times. She is standing right before me, looking down into my eyes. She’s naked except for a most magically deep scarlet skirt of the finest transparent silk. It is lined with exquisite glittering gold thread running down in lines from her waist to her feet.

I see the flames of the fire dancing through her skirt between her legs, her inner thighs and calves aglow with the flames golden light. Her whole body glistens with perfumed oil. Her fingers are covered, adorned with rings of gold and silver, jewels of ruby emerald diamond on everyone. Necklaces hang down, pearls and Moonstone’s grace her voluptuous swelling naked full breasts. Silver anklets covered in tiny bells adorn her ankles. Around her waist is a silver serpent, and at her belly just below the navel the snake has its tail in its mouth.

She has a single fine strand of silver and encircling her head and at the centre of her third eye hangs the most exquisite pink diamond, yoni shaped, glittering and reflecting from within, its magical light down into my being.

Shakti smiles…

Shakti fire dance

 

Ever so slowly, she starts to dance, all the while looking into my eyes, her hypnotic kohl-lined eyes mesmerising my being. She dances around the fire, sometimes twirling and spinning, swaying her hips, her whole body writing, undulating, shaking, stamping her feet upon the floor of the cave.

Her jewels and bracelets all tinkling and chiming a subtle metallic beat of their own. Her beautiful full swelling breasts glisten and sway with her rhythm, she smiles at me, delighting in my arousal and complete adoration of every inch of her exotic being. Shakti is happy and she laughs, making the most magical humming sounds and intonations.

A delicious heat arises throughout my whole body, even though I am sitting cross-legged on the floor smiling, my manhood stands totally hard and erect, fully aroused and proudly awakened, pulsating and throbbing with the sacred heat arising upwards, through my body. Divine desire and warmth continues upwards through my centre, through my beating heart, up into my third eye and Crown. I start to hum and chant strange yet familiar sounds responding to her sounds, we become one through the rhythm and sound.

Shakti is happy and she laughs aloud.

to be continued…

What is self love?

Self love is being in heart space.

How do I get out of head space – thoughts, feelings, chatter, busy busy? And relax into my heart and love my self?energy_heart_sm

Here are 6 ways:

  1. Awareness
    Increase your awareness of your body – tense your hands, feel the tension – then relax them and feel the release. Screw up your face and hold your breath, then relax and smile. Stretch out one leg and circle your foot, be aware of your foot moving; then stretch the other leg out and circle the other foot, awareness in your toes. Rub your hand on your tummy if you are sitting down, on your buttock or thigh if you are standing, feeling from the inside, being aware of the sensations only. Be aware of loving your body’s movement and stillness. Send gratitude and love to your body for the way it automatically responds to your thoughts.
  2. Breath
    Sit quietly, placing one hand on your heart and the other on your belly. Breathe out into your belly, feel it rise and fall. Be aware of your breath going in and out through your mouth and nose. Take 20 breaths, imagining your breath coming in through your belly and circulating up to your heart – loving your self.
  3. Chanting meditation
    Use Indian mantras or your favourite TV jingle, or a favourite song or poem. Out loud is best. Also humming works, or whispering. When you can hear it, the sound resonates.
    When you are in a group eg saying AUM or singing, the sound amplifies, and the energy is stronger.
    When you meditate on the repetitive sound, it can take you away from your thoughts and worries, and bring you into the present moment, ready to love your self.
  4. Dancing and movement
    Dancing is a good way to love your self. When you dance you can be lost in the moment. Free flow dancing is great exercise and a good way to release tension and relax your whole body. Movement, even swaying as you are sitting, can release tension so that you can relax, enjoy the moment and love your self.
  5. Massage and stroking
    I love touch, massage and stroking, so my biased opinion is also for you to stroke your self lovingly. Caress your face, your hair, your head, as if you were caressing your lover. You are! Then extend the touch to your arms and shoulders, stroke down your torso, your body, breasts, legs toes and feet. You can use soft fabrics like velvet, or find a feather to stroke yourself with for a different feeling. Massage that love in!
  6. Voyeur
    If you want to really stretch loving your self and your physical body – stand in front of a full length mirror and look at yourself – lovingly. Praise all the parts of your body you normally criticise. Stroke, massage, preen, and love that wonderful sexy person in the mirror! Watch what happens to your face and how you feel about your self afterwards…

Meditation is another way to get in touch with your self and love your self.

  • Use a candle to look at – focus on the flame and watch your thoughts go by – coming back to the contemplation of the candle.
  • Use the smell of incense to waft you away into a meditative reverie.
  • Read a book and love your self to be lost in the world of your imagination.
  • Slowly touch and stroke your body for self pleasure, whispering positive loving words of love eg
    • I love my legs which carry me through life
    • I appreciate my hands to feel my body
    • I love my skin, its softness and hardness and hairiness
    • I enjoy my genitals being gently stroked and held
    • I love my eyes to see sunsets sunrises and people I love
    • I love my self
    • I love me, I do.

If you would like to love your self more, pamper your self, and combine 3 of the 6 ways above, contact me for a Tantra Massage! Bookings HERE and my Schedule HERE.

Ally Thomas 2016

Pleasure Dance – erotic poem

Pleasure dance

Starting slowly

your kiss tingles and teases

tentatively

nibbled nipples

expand the feeling

of arousal

warm glow spreads down

my body

engulfing all with sensitivity.

The circuit is joined

between 2 nipples and Cleo

reports of pleasure

begin flow to the music.

As your tongue flicks

the waves of exquisiteness

peak again and again

I drown in ecstasy.

Fingers explore and expand

Scouting and surveying

arousal becomes a need

“I want you–now!”

As I writhe in anticipation

feeling the tentative head

hesitating at my entrance

then plunging in – to fill me

Into the smooth sensuous satin

of my juicy receptive warmth

your hot throbbing strength in

the thrusting rhythm of love.

As we dance all over the bed

sending pleasure back and forth

bodies locked in enjoyment

of the pleasure dance.

Couple tantric red Shiva Shakti dance artbyMarkLee

 

Crystal Fire striptease – erotic poem

Crystal Fire Striptease Dancer

Slowly sensuously she strips

in the setting Queensland sun

on the stage of the semi

part of the bikers weekend fun

A volunteer is needed

to rub on oil and be in the show

The Leader gets the pleasure

to massage her top to toe

She dances and struts and shimmies

To music sexy and slow

turning on these rough tough men

teasing them to want more to know

After the show is over

a request for her favour is made

but “I’d rather be your fantasy forever

than a reality that will quickly fade”.

Read more about Crystal Fire in “What Women Really Want”
ebook available now, print book available in 2016

Crystal Fire striptease Queensland
Crystal Fire striptease in Queensland