Tantra comes from ancient India and ancient China. In Indian Tantra, Yoni is Sanskrit name for pussy or vagina.  Lingam is Sanskrit name for cock or penis.

Indian Tantra

Shiva Lingam is a symbol found all over India and worshipped by many Indians.  The yoni is the base and the lingam goes through it symbolizing the union of the masculine and feminine energies creating a oneness or wholeness.

The union of lingam and yoni is a symbol of creation – of life, spiritual and physical – energy and light! And also symbolizes enlightenment.

Shiva Lingham in India

When you look at it – there is actually a Lingham inside a Yoni – so it’s a union seen from the inside!

Shiva and Shakti

Shiva and Shakti coming together, God and Goddess in ecstasy – using the power of love and the sexual energy to consciously create.  The harmony and balance of mind, body and spirit of two aware evolved beings creating music, art, children, with beauty and love.

Many modern Indians don’t know what tantra is.  Just as many religious devotees who are taught about the ritual and dogma simply follow the steps of the service in a church.

Tantra is about life, movement, flow of energy from one body to another – one leading, one following.  Often the pace changes – from fast to slow, inner to outer, relaxed and peaceful to turbulent and tempestuous.  Like a dance of energy – once you tune in to each other – with your synchonised breathing – eventually the dance takes over and you soar into the universe – an ecstatic state, full of multi-orgasmic bliss in timeless waves.  Combining taste, touch, smell and hearing you float together on waves of euphoric joy. Eventually retiring from the nectar of gods and goddess to this physical plane, to emerge relaxed, energized and satiated back where you began, on the shorts of consciousness.

A Ritual for Shiva and Shakti

1. Cleanse yourself and your partner – shower and wash each other with honour and respect – like you would a VIP.
2. Create your sacred space together – it can be a mattress on the floor or a massage table, with candles or soft lighting, relaxing music, food and drinks, incense, oils and other pleasuring items…
3. Sit facing each other – and spend about 5 minutes eye gazing.
   • Tell the other person 5 positive things you love about them.  The other listens and says thank you;
   • then swap over
   • Voice your Intention about what you want to dedicate this session to, or what you would like to dedicate your orgasm to;
   • then swap over
4. Breathing together – hands on each other’s heart – circular breathing to connect.
5. When you feel relaxed and connected, sit in Yab yam position – the man sits on floor on a cushion with his legs crossed or apart, the woman sits on his thighs, close together holding each other in an embrace. Then begin breathing together and then start rocking together.
6. Decide who is the Giver, and who is the Receiver. The Receiver lies down on a mattress or massage table.
7. One person strokes/pleasures the other – asking what pressure to stroke.
   Then swap – the other person strokes/pleasures the other – asking what pressure to stroke.
8. Love making if you both wish.
9. Sit in yab yam, hands on each others heart and thank each other.
10. Close the session with a hug or Namaste.
11. Un-create your sacred space.

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