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How much does a Tantra Massage cost?

September 18, 2018

How much does a Tantra Massage cost?

Cost to you for Sexual Dysfunction?

MEN: Do you have Premature Ejaculation? Do you suffer from erection dysfunction? Have you had a prostate operation? Are you dis-satisfied with your sex life? Do you have a lot of stress and tension in your work and life and don’t know how to get relief? Lack of sleep or broken sleep? Pain, lack of pleasure for you and your partner? Frustration? Lack of satisfaction for you and your lover? Performance anxiety?

What does this cost you in your life? Your relationship, happiness, joy, relaxation, control, pleasure, orgasms, performance…

Cost to do something?

Have you tried drugs, viagra, hormones, pumps, injections? Are you sick of debilitating side effects? Painful frustrating experiences? Tried to focus on something else? Been castigated for your efforts? Does it work for you?

Ancient Tantra Technique is easy to learn

A simple 3 step exercise takes about an hour for you to learn what to do, you practise doing it, and get an idea of how it works. For YOU! Very easy! The side effects are that you will feel relaxed and energised.

Then you practise – by yourself (it’s fun) until you feel competent. Then surprise your lover!!

She will be happy and grateful. You will be satisfied and relaxed. Confident in your masculinity and control of your sexuality.

Possible Benefits

easy to learn and practice!
it works!
stronger erections
release tension
control ejaculation
multiple orgasms before or after ejaculation
increase masculinity and confidence
de-stress
full body orgasm
relaxation
sleep better.

How much does a Tantra Massage cost for Men?

It costs less than Viagra. It’s more healthy than drugs. Ad it works better than mental control.

For men, a one hour one-one discrete private confidential Tantra Massage session to heal any of these issues, is $250. Other sessions are available see Mens page

Available in Adelaide, Melbourne, Newcastle, Hobart Brisbane, Perth, Canberra, Launceston, Sydney – see my Schedule page. Book now HERE

How much does a Tantra Massage cost for Women?

For women with sexual abuse issues, who have been hurt either mentally, physically or emotionally, you can also have a confidential consultation and Tantra session to learn how to relax, tune into and enjoy your feminine energy, and how to have a (female) orgasm – or a pampering sensual soft massage. See Women’s page for more information.

Tried and tested by experienced Tantra Teacher

Tantric exercises are originally from ancient India (Tantra) and China (Taoism), have been controlled, hidden or lost for many years, and are now available to all.

Ally has studied and practiced Tantra for over 20 years. She has taught Tantra techniques experientially since 2009 to thousands of men of all ages, occupations and health in Australia and New Zealand.

Any testimonials?

Ally has received many grateful testimonials from men who have learnt this technique and expressed how happy they and their wives, lovers and girlfriends as a result.

Hi Ally, I just want to let you know I had a very deep sleep last night, which doesn’t happen very often, and I’m sure yesterday’s wonderful, exhilarating session with you was the reason. Thanks again for a new experience. I will be visiting you again. K

You have helped me bring back my confidence in myself I will practice control.
J Adelaide

I was amazed at how long I was able to control my ejaculation using the tantra techniques. B Melbourne

Thank you for removing my block for my sexuality. i feel the power of my masculinity without the bravado! J Perth

I came to see you in desperation yet in one visit you successfully convinced me that there was nothing wrong with me. You have marvellous hands! Thank you for your ministrations! D Brisbane

I recommend Ally to make you feel wonderful. I came in as a 60 year old and left as a 17 year old! B Brisbane.

Lingam Massage – How To

September 19, 2017

Pleasure His Wand of Light

The Sanskrit language is very poetic. It names the penis as lingam, which means wand of light. And the Sanskrit word for pussy is yoni, which means sacred garden

Its much more romantic for a man to ask a woman “Can I play in your sacred garden with my wand of light?”

And if she asks him “Can I play with your wand of light?”” he feels the confidence of a Jedi Knight!

So how does she do this?

Set up for a Lingam Massage

After a refreshing shower or romantic spa bath, set up your sacred space. It can be a massage table, or a mattress of the floor in lounge. In winter, in front of the fire; in summer outside in your secluded shady back yard.
Slowly undress him, teasingly stroking his clothes off his body
He lies on his front, you gently stroke his back with your fingers. Rake or tickle your fingernails around his buttocks, up his legs. Gently stroke his perineum (the sensitive ridge between his balls and anus)
Watch his back as he breathes and tune your breath into his (slower or faster if necessary)
After plenty of exploring his whole back, arms, legs, neck with relaxing easing strokes, ask him to turn over (he wont be asleep, just very relaxed)
Start by teasing his legs with your fingernails and finger tips, then stroking with your hands up to his chest and down his arms. Then nibble or tweak his nipples. What does he like best?
Kiss him from his toes to balls. Then up to his tummy to his nipples, neck, ears, teasing until you get to his forehead, then his lips. Move slowly back down to his toes.
An option now (if his legs are apart) is to climb on the table from his feet or sit on the mattress between his knees. Crawl slowly up his body to lie on top and kiss him. He can play with your breasts if you sit on top of his tummy – still teasing!! It takes good control by a woman not to stop there! Do a couple of body slides if you want to tease him more. Sometimes you get stuck…
Then slide down and kneel between his knees (if you are comfortable with the height of the massage table – easy if you re on a mattress or low couch). Now you can explore and play with balls and lingam and tease a bit more.
Cover your hands with oil and gently apply it to his wand of light, stroking slowly and gently. Watch his face and check where he is as far as arousal. Usually his lingam will tell you!!

Strokes for His Wand of Light

Ironing – both your hands are flat. Start with palm on base of lingam and slowly, firmly, move your hands all the way up his lingam and up to his chest, so that your whole forearm strokes it. Repeat with the other hand and arm, bringing each stroke around his nipple and down the side of his body, back to lingam. Repeat as many times as you like and as he likes…
Lemon Squeezer – with plenty of oil on your palms, rub the tip (glans) of his lingam with your palm, as if you are squeezing a lemon. Do this gently the first time as sometimes the lingam is very sensitive. Ask to find the correct amount of pressure to apply. Watch his pleasure on his face.
Ice Cream – lick from the base of the lingam up to the tip. Then nibble down one side, then the other. Flick your tongue p and down the wand of light and see hi face light up!! Lick around the edge of the glans to tease him. Watch his eyes go up to the top of his head! Gently suck just the head and lick the frenulum (spot where ^ of glans) to tease him more.

Alternate and repeat these Lingam Massage strokes until your Sacred Garden is well watered and ready to receive his Wand of Light.

Or book a Couples Session and learn directly from Ally how to do these strokes:

Sex Secret – size

January 16, 2017

Size – does it matter?

A lot of men worry about size. “Am I big enough?” And they think that woman want a larger size. My answer is always “Its not how big you are, its what you do with it that counts!”

Go into an adult shop. Most of the dildos and vibrators for women are average size. That’s what women want.

Think of cucumbers, fingers, bananas and other similar shaped phallic objects. Big does not mean better!

In fact, years ago I had a male friend who had a very large lingam. He told me that many women were frightened when they saw it. He was a very good lover. He took quite lot of time and effort to ensure that his lover was very relaxed before he could make love with her.

And there was another lover that thought he was too small, but his tongue more than made up for it!!!

So men, when you wish it was bigger, because you are worried about your performance, just learn how to satisfy a woman with your whole body (tongue, fingers, hands) – touching, teasing, stroking and pleasuring her all over and asking her permission (Are you ready for me?”) before you enter her.

Learn some Tantric techniques from my book “What Men and Women Really Want” about using your sexual energy to impress her and satisfy her more. Order HERE

And it’s often the size of your heart that impresses her more!!

Tantra Massage in Melbourne

November 5, 2016

Tantra Massage in Melbourne

Melbourne has lots of people learning or wanting to learn about Tantra and Tantra Massage. I get many enquiries from my website and phone messages from people wanting to experience Tantra, to get rid of their fears and blocks; to heal their sexual shame and hurts. They want to last longer, to have more pleasure, to pleasure their partner more, or just have a relaxing sensual massage.

I don’t teach sexual technique. You know how to do that! I can help you enhance it, extend it, create more connection easily with your partner. I can show you how to turn her on easily. How to re-ignite the spark that you had when you were teenagers, that you seem to have lost when you became parents, and now they are independent, you want to get back. Yes, that romance, that sexual connection, tuning into your feminine and masculine essence. and that beautiful love-making. It is possible.

Sex Education

I often teach people about sexuality – What is the difference between orgasm and ejaculation? What are the differences between male and female orgasm? What are the different types of orgasm? How do I tune into my sexual energy and turn it on? How do i enhance my feminine essence? How do i have an orgasm? These are all questions I have been asked. We don’t learn about this at school, often because we don’t know the questions to ask. And often it’s because we don’t know WHO to ask! Parents, Teachers peers and elders? Who knows?

Tantra Massage for Men

For Men, there is Lingam massage, Tantra Pleasure Experience and Tantra Massage. Tantra Pleasure Experience which is like a massage – very relaxing and energising. I also teach men how to control your erection, orgasm and ejaculation and how to move your sexual energy around your body for more control and pleasure. More information for men about these and Tantra Massage in Melbourne HERE.

Tantra Massage for Women

Women’s Sensual Massage, Yoni massage,Tantra Pleasure Experience and Tantra Massage are more about sensuality and tuning into your feminine essence. Tantra Pleasure Experience is like a massage – very relaxing and energising, with guided meditation, breathing and Tantra techniques. Women can learn how to enhance your feminine energy and how to move it around your body to relax and for more pleasure. There is more information about Sensual Massage, Yoni massage,Tantra Pleasure Experience and Tantra Massage in Melbourne HERE.

Tantra Massage for Couples

I also have Tantra sessions for couples. You have several choices

1. You can buy my ebook – ‘What women Really want – 6 Tantric Sex Techniques for Men and Couples” from Amazon and study it. There are lots of good ideas on how to pleasure and massage your partner. Read it in any order and study it, then come for a Couples session.

2. You could have a Tantra session by yourself to learn how to control your energy with Tantric techniques and then share with your partner

3. You can have a couples session, which is just the three of us.

One person will be pleasured and gently massaged while the other watches and learns, then you swap over. Its a full body massage, very hands-on and informative, so you can learn new ways to pleasure each other. He can learn how to control his orgasms and ejaculation and she can learn how to move her energy through her body.

Also I will give you some easy ways to connect, to create more intimacy, and also teach you both strokes to pleasure each other more. One hour and 2 hour sessions available. More information HERE.

DO IT NOW!

Book now, as I am in Melbourne only on Monday 14 and Tuesday 15 November for the last time this year of 2016.

Sacred Tantra Massage for Men and Women

March 10, 2016

Sacred Tantra Lingam Massage for Men

Enjoy the pleasure of a Sacred Tantra Lingam massage to activate your sacred masculine energy – a full body sensual and erotic massage. The Sacred Grove Oil feels sublime on your body. it fortifies body and soul with liquid armour. The infusion incorporates the Sacred Healing energies, and combined with gentle relaxing and energising massage strokes can be an extraordinary experience.
includes a bottle of Sacred Grove Oil from the Scented Emu Bush to take home and use for yourself or your lover

1 hour Sacred Lingam* Massage for men $220

Call or text 0419 038 310 or make a Booking

Sacred Tantra Yoni Massage for Women

Ladies – pamper and relax with a healing Sacred Tantra Yoni* massage. You can activate and enhance your beautiful feminine energy, and surrender to the pleasure. Massage includes a bottle of healing Sacred Grove Oil from the Scented Emu Bush to give your lover a sensual massage or use yourself all over your body …

1 hour Sacred massage for women $170

Call or text 0419 038 310 or make a Booking

* Lingam = penis, cock

* Yoni = vagina, pussy

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The Scented Emu Bush (Eremophila alternifolia) is a plant of mystical and sacred significance to the indigenous Aboriginal people who have lived in the central desert regions of Australia for eons and used it for healing as part of their bush medicine.

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