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Performance in the bedroom – feel inadequate?

Performance for Men – Do you feel sexually inadequate?

Performance anxiety is the big issue for most men.

Do you feel sexually inadequate? Are you worried and anxious about your performance? Has your libido dropped or gone away?
Is it big enough? Trouble getting it up? Keeping it up? Is it hard enough? Do you want stronger erections? To lasting longer? To be satisfied?Stressed out with work life and lack of sex and love?
Are you good enough for her? Satisfying her? Is she happy and wanting more?
Want to have multiple orgasms?

How to improve your Sexual Performance

With easy Tantra techniques you can learn how to control your sexual energy. Get your confidence back by tuning into your masculine sexual power..

Tantra Pleasure Experience is the first of a five part Tantra course which teaches men* how to:

  • control their orgasm and ejaculation (2 separate things) as well as helping erection strength, prostate health and general relaxation and well being;
  • use their sexual energy to achieve their sexual potential and move their sexual energy round their body;
  • pleasure a woman so she is juicy, ready and willing for great sex;
  • align your sexual energy with your partner to combine commune and unite in mutual energetic orgasms;
  • play and tease each other on a journey through your senses.

Premature ejaculation, erection dysfunction and healing from sexual abuse and trauma can be addressed with coaching and counselling in conjunction with Tantra Massage if necessary.

Extras like strip tease, yab yum position, Kundalini energy, GFE*, and G-spot techniques can also be included in your Tantric program*.

Act now! Sooner the better!

You deserve to enjoy your sex life with yourself and your partner! Contact Ally now to book your Tantra Pleasure Experience and Tantric program HERE

  • also for Women and Couples
  • GFE – Girl Friend Experience – see FAQ page for definition
  • more about Tantra Program for Men HERE
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worried about sexual performance?
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confused about your sexual performance and libido?
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satisfied with your sexual performance – and hers?

 

Tantra is tuning into your spiritual energy

Tantra is tuning into your spiritual energy

Your body is a portal or gateway through which you can tune into your spiritual energy.spiritual energy My Tantra Massage

Tantric breathwork, Kundalini energy, pranic breathing and some yoga and meditation practices have in common that they can awaken or open portals to other dimensions.

When your mind body and spirit are aligned, controlled and directed with spiritual ascension or enlightened intention, then your energy flows.

  • Conscious Breathing releases and relaxes mind chatter;
  • Touch and connection stimulates and satisfies the body’s sensual cravings;
  • And Spirit soars with the balance between thoughts and feelings – uplifted with unconditional love energy from your heart chakra.

One can direct or lead another to reach these places and spaces, with trust, instruction, energy and vibrational transmission. And the Receiver will transcend to the level of their experience. Some have a pleasant experience, some physical ecstasy, some mystical and others truly tantric full body orgasms or out of body experiences and spiritual energy orgasms.

When I tune in to the Love Grid and ask for love, light and healing for the person I am giving a Tantra Pleasure Experience, I open my energy as a clear channel to receive the flow of unconditional love into that person. Healing can be physical, mental, emotional or spiritual. The energy goes to where it is needed. Reiki energy flows with heat and strength, filling me up with its powerful healing, healing me, then overflowing into the person to heal their wounds and fill them with unconditional love.

I call it Tantric spiritual energy. It has no name really. It has a flow and never ceases. It can be very strong, hot and insistent. And it can be extremely soft, gentle and light. Always healing. Always unconditionally loving. And the empty spaces inside us that have been lonely and separated and unloved are filled up, connected and energised with the most beautiful feeling in the world: LOVE.

Ally

30/4/18

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To tune into your tantric spiritual energy with a Tantra Pleasure Experience for Men, Women or Couples today bookings HERE

latest quotes from Ally

Quotes by Ally

Some of my favourite quotes to share with you:

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Tantra is tuning in to your sexual energy – as well as being aware of your body and breath ~Ally Thomas 2017

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Tantra Massage can heal and release things to help you move on in your life – back into your power and confidence – Ally Thomas

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There’s enough pain in life without having more in a massage!
So enjoy a Tantra Pleasure Experience – Ally Thomas

BOOK YOUR TANTRA MASSAGE HERE NOW

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Love is an expression of the willingness to create space in which something is allowed to change – by Harry Palmer, (creator of Avatar personal development program)

Lingam Massage – How To

Pleasure His Wand of Light

The Sanskrit language is very poetic. It names the penis as lingam, which means wand of light. And the Sanskrit word for pussy is yoni, which means sacred garden

Its much more romantic for a man to ask a woman “Can I play in your sacred garden with my wand of light?”

And if she asks him “Can I play with your wand of light?”” he feels the confidence of a Jedi Knight!

So how does she do this?

Set up for a Lingam Massage

  1. After a refreshing shower or romantic spa bath, set up your sacred space. It can be a massage table, or a mattress of the floor in lounge. In winter, in front of the fire; in summer outside in your secluded shady back yard.
  2. Slowly undress him, teasingly stroking his clothes off his body
  3. He lies on his front, you gently stroke his back with your fingers. Rake or tickle your fingernails around his buttocks, up his legs. Gently stroke his perineum (the sensitive ridge between his balls and anus)
  4. Watch his back as he breathes and tune your breath into his (slower or faster if necessary)
  5. After plenty of exploring his whole back, arms, legs, neck with relaxing easing strokes, ask him to turn over (he wont be asleep, just very relaxed)
  6. Start by teasing his legs with your fingernails and finger tips, then stroking with your hands up to his chest and down his arms. Then nibble or tweak his nipples. What does he like best?
  7. Kiss him from his toes to balls. Then up to his tummy to his nipples, neck, ears, teasing until you get to his forehead, then his lips. Move slowly back down to his toes.
  8. An option now (if his legs are apart) is to climb on the table from his feet or sit on the mattress between his knees. Crawl slowly up his body to lie on top and kiss him. He can play with your breasts if you sit on top of his tummy – still teasing!! It takes good control by a woman not to stop there! Do a couple of body slides if you want to tease him more. Sometimes you get stuck…
  9. Then slide down and kneel between his knees (if you are comfortable with the height of the massage table – easy if you re on a mattress or low couch). Now you can explore and play with balls and lingam and tease a bit more.
  10. Cover your hands with oil and gently apply it to his wand of light, stroking slowly and gently. Watch his face and check where he is as far as arousal. Usually his lingam will tell you!!

Strokes for His Wand of Light

  1. Ironing – both your hands are flat. Start with palm on base of lingam and slowly, firmly, move your hands all the way up his lingam and up to his chest, so that your whole forearm strokes it. Repeat with the other hand and arm, bringing each stroke around his nipple and down the side of his body, back to lingam. Repeat as many times as you like and as he likes…
  2. Lemon Squeezer – with plenty of oil on your palms, rub the tip (glans) of his lingam with your palm, as if you are squeezing a lemon. Do this gently the first time as sometimes the lingam is very sensitive. Ask to find the correct amount of pressure to apply. Watch his pleasure on his face.
  3. Ice Cream – lick from the base of the lingam up to the tip. Then nibble down one side, then the other. Flick your tongue p and down the wand of light and see hi face light up!! Lick around the edge of the glans to tease him. Watch his eyes go up to the top of his head! Gently suck just the head and lick the frenulum (spot where ^ of glans) to tease him more.

Alternate and repeat these Lingam Massage strokes until your Sacred Garden is well watered and ready to receive his Wand of Light.

Or book a Couples Session and learn directly from Ally how to do these strokes:


 

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Tantra Practice Playshop in Brisbane

Tantra practice playshop

Come along to a Tantra Practice Playshops in Brisbane

7pm-11pm

$70 for couple, $50 for men, $30 for women* (includes Supper)

FAQs – see below

Testimonials for TPP – below

  • Connect, learn and practise tantric techniques and exercises in safe space
  • Give and receive touch safely – without agenda, with boundaries
  • Have fun, make connections with like minded people
  • For singles, friends and couples

We endeavour to have each Tantra Practice Playshop gender balanced, so if you bring a friend of the opposite sex, you are more likely to be accepted, as sometimes there is a Waiting List. Couples can be friends to maintain the gender balance.

Playshops are held monthly on Saturdays in Adelaide, and in other cities by request as available. Ally will be in Brisbane on 12 December 2018, so this Playshop is specially available then. She has previously organised Playshops in Brisbane on 31 August 2017 and 31 August 2018.

You do not have to have Tantric experience, just be open minded and willing to learn.

  • Expand your tantric knowledge and Tantra practice
  • Have fun doing Tantra exercises with different people
  • Practise how to move your sexual energy through your body
  • Learn how to connect with your self (spiritual), your body, and others
  • How to create and improve intimacy
  • Easily learn about how to set boundaries
  • Enjoy safe loving consensual touch
  • Expand your spiritual energy with sensual awareness

This Playshop is for open-minded men women and couples to learn and practise tantra and other sacred sexuality practices and have fun in a safe sacred space that’s playful gentle healing and respectful.
All exercises are safe, with consensual touch and CLOTHED.
You will be guided through some of the following: tantric exercises, meditation, body work, touch, energy movement, breath, dancing, massage

There is no nudity, no alcohol; no drugs and no sex intercourse involved.

** Delicious healthy Supper, juices and soft drinks provided (let us know if you have any dietary needs).

BOOKINGS ESSENTIAL, preferably to Ally, as numbers are limited

BOOK HERE with your contact details – email with Tantra Practice Playshop in Subject Line

TESTIMONIALS:

Last night was just perfect. Thank you Ally (Adelaide 2017)

We enjoyed last night very much. (couple Adelaide 2017)

Hi Ally,
I just wanted to thank you for inviting me you your recent tantra night (2014). What an amazing evening!
Being a first timer, I wasn’t too sure what to expect, however, the positive energy and inner happiness I felt from doing the various exercises and sharing each moment was unbelievable.
Such a lovely group of people to spend an evening with and a great supper too!!!
Thanks ally, see you soon,
Namaste, K Adelaide

Blessings Ally.
I cannot thank you enough for the beautiful space which was created last night (March 2013) and the safety and energy in which it was provided and given to us as a group. I was deeply enriched by the experience and when I sent forth the energy, sent it home in the direction of my husband. When I returned late in the evening, He desired me so fully that the love making which followed was energetic and encapsulating. It coursed through us like a river of magic through our spiritual beings. Heaven found herself in our arms and we were blessed with her presence.
Thank you for taking a chance with having me along (when you knew little of me) and I look forward to spending more evenings with yourself and others, in the sacred provision of life shared, explored and discovered.
Namaste. D Adelaide

“Hi Ally. I’d like to thank you again for the opportunity and lovely night (March 2013), it was incredible. You and Peter created a warm, safe and loving space where I actually felt more free, cared for and able to express myself in ways that would generally make me feel quite anxious. The other guests were all beautiful people and added to this environment, making it a wonderful night. I’ve never felt so connected to another individual in such a short space of time, it was a very positive and uplifting experience. During the night I felt my confidence increase, which has continued, and I feel things can only improve over time. I certainly learnt a lot, not just about tantra, a little overwhelming to be honest.
Again thank you, you’ve been an excellent guide. Looking forward to the next one. J (Adelaide)”

“I’d like to say thank you for being a wonderful facilitator/group leader Ally – you’re a highly skilled, professional Tantra Woman & you held the group beautifully. You created a safe space for people to relax into the practices. Gold Star to Ally!
The whole experience was so uplifting, lately I have been stressed out!
I thought all the people there were exceptional – beautiful with positive energies! Yeah it was a great night and one to remember !
When’s the next one ?” (Adelaide)

FAQ

Are the men clean, honest, quality, respectful, safe, friendly and normal?

Yes. I have personally checked every ‘single man’ who attends the Tantra Playshops in Adelaide. The pre-requisite is for men to have had at least one Tantra Pleasure Experience or Tantra session with me. They may be a bit shy, under confident or over confident though…
In Brisbane they have been recommended by Marilyn…

Will the women be positive, pleasant, open and friendly?

Yes they are personally vetted by me and open minded and friendly. However they may be a bit worried about feeling safe, and that their boundaries are respected.

The Couples who attend – are they safe, sharing, open and friendly?

In Adelaide, Couples are required to complete a Questionnaire and some have had sessions with me.

Do you have to join in with everything?

You can choose whether you do an exercise or not. You can set boundaries so that you are safe

What limits or boundaries are available?

You set your own boundaries and limits.
eg touching only on exposed skin. Touching arms face head is OK etc.  Touch must be light and gentle. Please massage my shoulders firmly. Please don’t touch my head/hair! Please don’t touch my breasts. You can touch and stroke my lower arms and hands.

Is everyone married or in a relationship or single and available?

Some people have partners, and are here with them, some are not. Agreements are made between partners about limits and boundaries for each other.
Singles aren’t necessarily looking for a relationship. The Tantra Playshops are not about pairing people up, it’s about practicing Tantra with a partner, which may or may not be yours.
At the beginning of the party everyone tells the whole group their status, boundaries and agreements.

Will there be more men than women at the Tantra Practice Playshop?

No. Every party we endeavour to have gender balanced with equal numbers of men and women. You can choose to be with a woman or man in some of the exercises.

Do I have to take my clothes off?

Some people may take some of their clothes off because they get hot, however full nudity is not involved. You choose your level of comfort and clothing. You need to be OK with others partial nakedness, however no more than you see on any beach in summer!

What are the ages of people attend a Tantra Practice Playshop?

All age groups are welcome, and each Playshop has different attendees, however most people are between 30 and 50.

Contact Ally to book your place

email or book or to go on mailing list for these Playshops and other Events.

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Elysium

Elysium A New Realm of Pleasure … similar to BondassageElysium with Ally

Elysium is a unique new creation designed to bring you to previously unknown heights of bliss. A slower, softer version of Bondassage (without the body percussion and sensation play) ~ Elysium stretches your sensual boundaries, transporting you to new realms of pleasure.

Focusing on your sole satisfaction, using a unique combination of ancient esoteric techniques, Elysium combines a mesmerizing sequence of extraordinary touches, enticing all of the senses. Expertly controlling your state of blissful relaxation, Elysium provides a multi-dimensional experience designed to expand your sensory boundaries.

Elysium focuses the senses, combining Ayurvedic, Kashmiri, and Taoist principles with soft, silk bondage and sensory focusing tools. Alternating soft brush strokes, excruciatingly slow massage, and expert caresses, Elysium brings you the ultimate sensual experience.

“In Greek mythology, only those specially favored by the gods entered Elysium and were made immortal …”

Experience the ultimate in innovative bodyplay. Elysium raises the bar of bearable bliss to new and untried peaks. Designed for massage enthusiasts seeking the ultimate test of self control. Book your session with Ally Kazam today!

Elysium is the bondage without the discipline. A sensory experience which can drop you into a wonderful different space. The ultimate tease…

One persons experience: “A slow sensual stroking that you disappear, floating effortlessly on blissful wings of pleasure, gentle lingham or yoni massage without expectation of release.”

Suspend Time.  Transcend Reality.  Experience Elysium.

ELYSIUM RATES FOR MEN or WOMEN

1 Hour Session – $250

1.5 Hour Session $350

Book with Ally Kazam (a Certified Bondassage and Elysium Practitioner) now – email or phone (details on Contact page)

NB Some of this information is taken from the Bondassage website, with permission. More information here

Book Launch Schedule

What men and women really want bookWhat Men and Women Really Want Book launch 2017

What Men and Women Really Want – 6 Tantric Love Secrets” is now available for those of you who want to read the print copy of my ebook will be happy to know that I have revised it and the print version will be available in February 2017. As a result of my years of training, exploration and lessons here it is!

I will be holding Book Launch Events as I travel to all major cities in Australia – Perth Adelaide Sydney Newcastle Hobart Brisbane Darwin Melbourne and Canberra over the first six months of 2017.

Who is “What Men and Women Really Want” for?

This book is not only about what every man wants to know. But also what every woman wants her man to know as well!

♦  For men, women and couples who want to love, to connect, and to feel a deeper aspect of their love.

♦  For singles who want to tune into themselves and love themselves more.

♦  For couples to reconnect and reignite their sex life and love connection and take it to a higher, more energetic space. To connect mind body and spirit and unite as one.

What you’ll find inside – What Every Woman and Man Wants!

♦   How to relax and pleasure your lover with sensual massage techniques – and have him/her begging you for more…

♦  How to connect at a deeper level with each other and pleasure your lover more – the secret that every passionate couple wants to know

♦  How to transform intimacy with your lover to another level with these six tantric secrets

My experience of Tantra is that is unites the physical and the spiritual, joining awareness with breath, to balance and harmonise my masculine and feminine energies and enable me to experience unlimited joy and bliss.

Come to a BOOK LAUNCH of “WHAT MEN AND WOMEN REALLY WANT” in your city

In 2017 I’ll be travelling around Australia talking about my book “What Men and Women Really Want – 6 Tantric Love Secrets”. At each event I’ll share with you one of my 6 Tantric secrets, chatting to you about Tantra and my Tantra journey along everything in between.

I’ll answer your questions about Tantra as well as sign your copy of ‘What Men and Women Really Want’. I’m happy to take photos and bookings too.

Limited numbers, so purchase your tickets now! Can’t wait to meet you there!

BE A VIP GUEST OF MINE

VIP Pre-sale Pack includes a signed copy of the printed book, a bottle of Sacred Grove Scented Emu Bush Massage and Healing Oil, 10% discount voucher, USB of meditations and visualisations by Ally (worth $85) for $50.

Order as a VIP and arrive earlier to meet me personally and receive personally signed copy of the book. Limited numbers, so purchase your tickets now! Can’t wait to meet you there!
Click HERE to purchase your VIP ticket and pack now.

BOOK YOUR TICKETS BELOW

Get your Book Launch Ticket for $10 (which will be deducted from the price of the book) BELOW. All events run from 7pm to 9pm. VIPs from 6pm.
Payment is available by Eftpos, Direct Debit/Bank Transfer, Visa, MasterCard and Paypal.  

City Schedule

PERTH – Tuesday 14 FEBRUARY 2017 – book here
ADELAIDE – Wednesday 22 FEBRUARY 2017 – book here
SYDNEY – 24 MARCH book here
CANBERRA 29 MARCH book here
HOBART – Friday 21 APRIL Hobart – bookings
NEWCASTLE – Wednesday 10 MAY – book here
BRISBANE – Tuesday 23 MAY – book here
MELBOURNE – Tuesday 5 JUNE – book here
DARWIN – 28 JUNE – book here

How can I buy a print copy of “What Men and Women Really Want”?

Print versions of “What Men and Women Really Want” will be available for $20 in February 2017. To pre-order your copy and a copy for your friend click HERE.

VIP Book Launch Package includes VIP Entrance to the Book Launch, a signed copy of the printed book, a bottle of Sacred Grove Scented Emu Bush Massage and Healing Oil, 10% discount voucher, USB of meditations and visualisations by Ally (worth $85) for $50. Pick up your VIP Pack at the Book Launch in your nearest city. Limited numbers. Click HERE to purchase your VIP ticket and pack now.

What Men and women really want book

Erectile Dysfunction and Natural Australian oil

Erectile Dysfunction

Do you have erectile dysfunction?
Do you have trouble getting or keeping your erection?

Often men lose the ability to have strong erections after prostate surgery. Or as a result of not using their genitals often enough. Or not having enough sex. (If you don’t use it, you lose it!) Whatever the reason, here is some good news!  It is a natural way, rather than using chemicals and drugs.

I have recently had good successes with Tantra lingam massage using a newly created oil from the native Australian Scented Emu Bush.

About the Scented Emu BushEremophila_alternifolia 02

The Scented Emu Bush (Eremophila alternifolia) is a plant of mystical and sacred significance to the indigenous Aboriginal people who have lived in the central desert regions of Australia for eons and used it for healing as part of their bush medicine.

from Wikipedia: “It is a variable shrub, both with respect to its leaves and flower colour. Aboriginal Australians used the leaves to treat ailments such as colds and skin infections and pharmacological testing has shown that the leaves contain compounds that affect cardiac activity. An indigenous name for the plant, Tarrtjan translated as Goldfields, a region in the West where it is found. 

Medicine: Parts of this plant have been used as a traditional medicine. A small quantity was used in a preparation for treating colds and inflammation of the throat, an infusion of the leaves as a soporific, and other parts combined as a topical treatment. Compounds such as verbascoside present in the leaves of this species have been shown to have both antibacterial properties and the ability to dilate blood vessels.[14]

So it is very good for dry skin, and excellent to use for erectile dysfunction, so that it can help men have stronger erections.

Book your Sacred Tantra Healing massage today, as it includes a bottle of Sacred Grove Scented Emu Bush oil to take home with you.

Book now for Sacred Tantra Massage for erectile dysfunction to have stronger erections

more details on FOR MEN page

Premature ejaculation control information HERE