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Personal & Relationship Passion Maps

Love Passion and Purpose Coaching with Ally

What is a Passion Map?

The expression of our genuine passions can have a vitalising and inspiring influence on those around us. Finding similar passions with others opens up possibilities for whole new experiences and connections. Passion is not a given, it needs to be cultivated and nurtured.

Passions are … the deep inner drives, to reach for what we love. Our passions awaken and energise our relationships.

Would you like to be able to:

  • Learn more about yourself and love yourself more?
  • Deep dive into your soul?
  • To find your highest purpose in life?
  • Easily find your star qualities?
  • Create your personal Passion Map as a reflection of yourself?
  • Find your life purpose?
  • Refine your passions?
  • Create a vision for your optimal future success?
  • Set some goals using spiritual soul centred gentle guided meditation?

Passion in Relationship 

Do you and your partner want to :

  • Discover what passions you share in your relationship?
  • Create a powerful shared vision & potential for being together?
  • Develop focus on what gives your relationship meaning and purpose?
  • Generate energy, excitement, creativity and courage in your relationship?
  • Experience the essence of who you are together?
  • Connect your relationship with your partner at a deeper level?

Connecting with our own and shared passion is an important key for thriving and deeply rewarding relationships. It fosters an important bond with our partner based on our shared passions and visions for our life and relationship. Shared passion helps the relationships in our life strengthen and grow.

Having passion in a relationship is essential for keeping it alive, healthy, growing, intimate and connected. Passion in relationship can be an intense feeling, enthusiasm, energy, affection, love and desire. Passion means being authentic with ourselves and our partners, being both powerful and vulnerable, sharing our joys, being open, having a willingness to go deeper and taking responsibility to create what we love in our lives.

Perhaps it is time to revisit the possibility of empassioning your own relationship?

What you can expect in a Passion Map with Ally

A Relationship Passion Map is a powerful way to take your partnership a step, or leap, further – to deepen your understanding of each other and the way you create relationship: to clarify your intention for being together; open up channels of communication; foster a mutual trust; transform relationship tensions; and bring about the highest good for both partners.

A Relationship Passion Map is a new way to build and sustain a healthy and loving relationship. Drawing from the wisdom of the Passion Mapping process, it allows you to create an integrated map of the passions and strengths you both bring to the partnership. The sessions also allow you to focus on creating a shared vision and aspiration to move towards your relationship.

This program consists of 3-4 sessions of about two hours each. It can be face to face or on Zoom. This is followed by a telephone check-in session with your practitioner to review progress and provide support.
Each partner needs complete their own Personal Passion Map program prior to their Relationship program.

Your Practitioner

  • Inspires you into being the best you can be together
  • Acts as a gentle facilitator and guide taking you through the process
  • Is accredited and holds a professional, confidential and respectful space.

Interested in exploring the passions in your relationship? Let’s talk.

Relationship Passion Map Brochure Download

Testimonials

“Profound, moving, touching and uplifting. A perfect way to renew your love for each other.” – Jürgen Schmechel, Relationship Expert

“I can safely say that for both myself and my colleague, this process has been enlightening and invaluable and that the impact of the sessions has and will continue to endure” – Mike Read, PLD Director, Wrigley

“My partner appreciates many qualities about me that I didn’t realise. It was a wonderful exercise to strengthen our relationship” – Vanessa Hillier, Financial Adviser

“The Relationship Passion Map program clarified and prioritised what’s important for us in our relationship” – Martin Brennan, Consultant

Inspiring new worlds of passion

Adelaide Facilitator – Ally Thomas

More information: http://www.passionmaps.com

What do you get?

Personal Love Passion and Purpose Coaching Sessions:
4 x 2 hour sessions, includes Workbook, home-play exercises, your own Passion Map, find your Life Purpose to take away. Weekly or fortnightly sessions one on one or Zoom

Clarify your passions and values, find your Highest Purpose, tune into your passions and have a powerful image to integrate into your life to help you live your authentic life and love your self more.

Relationship Passion Love and Intimacy Coaching Sessions for Couples:
5 x 2 hour sessions (4 sessions each and one together) – Enjoy creating your own individual Passion Map and a combined relationship Passion Map.

Call Ally or book for a Clarity session. Your initial 30 minutes pre-consultation is free – by phone or online.

Pricing

Introduction to Passion Map Playshop – 2 hours $50 in Unley – dates to be advised

Personal Passion Map – Love Passion Purpose

A powerful coaching, meditative and embodied process that takes 4 sessions of approximately 2 hours each – 1 on 1 in person or on Zoom. Weekly or fortnightly. Includes Workbook, Passion Kit, Life Purpose

Investment in yourself – $850 ($250 deposit and 3 x $200 per session) or $800 paid in full in advance.

Relationship Passion Map – Love Passion Purpose for Couples

For couples, lovers, friends – to increase your intimacy, deepen your passion and strengthen your relationship

5 x 2 hour sessions (4 sessions each and one together) personally or on Zoom. Weekly or fortnightly – 2 separate, one combined session. Includes – Personal Passion Map for each person with Workbook &  Passion Kit

Investment $1500 ($550 deposit and $250 x 4 per session) or $1500 paid in full in advance.

Passionate Sacred Feminine Playshop

Playshops held at Unley or Flaxley. For women only. More details HERE.

Business Partnership Passion Mapping – Passion and Purpose for 2 people

For business partnerships, and shared projects

5 x 2 hour sessions – personally or on Zoom. Weekly or fortnightly. Includes – Personal Passion Map for each with Workbook, Passion Kit

Tax Deductible Investment: $2200 ($600 deposit and 4 x $400 per session – total $2200) or $1999 paid in full in advance.

Ongoing Love Passion & Purpose Coaching

Weekly monthly or fortnightly sessions – in person or on Zoom

To continue integrating your Passion Map into your life; realising your dreams and goals and refining your passion map, by Zoom or personally. Timing to suit both you and me.

  • 3 months x 1 hour monthly coaching sessions – 3 hours = total $350 or $300 if paid in full in advance
  • 3 months x 1 hour fortnightly coaching sessions – 6 hours = total $550 or $500 if paid in full in advance
  • 3 months x 1 hour weekly coaching sessions – 12 hours = total $1300 or $1200 if paid in full in advance
  • 6 monthly programs and 2 hourly session – POA

How and When?

Available from 1 June 2020. Contact Ally Thomas on 0419 038 310 to make your booking now

Relationship Passion Map with Ally

Healing and Chariklo

Energetic Healing

As a spiritual energetic healer, I find not being able to use the magic of connecting by touch and massage to help people heal themselves a challenge.

At the end of March 2020 I was going to go on a holiday to India for 2 weeks, so my energy was in “relaxation mode”. Unfortunately I could not go away.

In April 2020 I am “back” from my “holiday” and I need to use this powerful unconditional love energy that runs through me for healing.

Chariklo

On 6 April I found out about Chariklo, the wife of Chiron. In Greek mythology Chiron was the wounded healer and Chariklo was his wife. She was a naiad (freshwater nymph). Chariklo means “graceful spinner”. She related to our sense of personal space, subtle body and astral travel.

Astrology

Astrologer Pam Gregory, in her You Tube presentation “Full Super Moon in Libra 7-8 April 2020”, says “Chariklo enables healing by holding sacred space. She helps us get in touch with the ever present Now, the eternal stillness, permanence. We can just drop into and take ourselves out of stressful 3D situations. So she is helpful to us now. She is also a Soul midwife – transitions between life and death, and transitions of consciousness.”

David Leskowitz, another astrologer, in his article “Crafting a Future with the Centaur’s Cosmic Sandpaper: 2020 Transits of Chiron, Pholus and Chariklo” says “The daughter of Apollo, Chariklo is a naiad (fresh-water nymph) and wife of Chiron. In one of her myths she is a temple priestess of Vesta. Meaning “Graceful Spinner”, Chariklo relates to our sense of personal space, subtle body, and astral travel. Together with her partner Chiron, she guides us on the path of healing and awakening. An astrological keyword for Chariklo is charisma, or the bestowing of grace.” And also “Chariklo, Cosmic medicine-woman & The Stellium of 2020 when the infamous Saturn-Pluto conjunction strikes, Chariklo is there to lead the way forward as natural guide of boundaries. As a Centaur who orbits beyond Saturn and in resonance with Uranus, Chariklo represents the expansion of self that can follow the process of individuation.”

The key for me is “Chariklo enables healing by holding sacred space”. I like to create space in which something is allowed to heal. I have been doing this with Tantric Massage and Coaching and Counselling for many years.

In the last six months, I have been doing more Transformational Relationship Consultations for people who want to change their relationships – with themselves, with others, (in love sex or intimacy). I have had success with people who have had ED, fear of relationships, healed emotional mental and spiritual blocks.

So now I am offering online Transpersonal Relationship Consultation sessions on Zoom, discounted by 50%, until 30 April 2020.

  •  Transformational Relationship Coaching and Consultation program – usually $250 per hour
    x 5 weekly sessions or $1000 paid in full in advance in person (when possible). More details HERE
    Online using Zoom, or by phone = $125 per hour or $500 for 5 session program until 30 April 2020.
  • Payment can be by direct deposit, eftpos, VISA or MasterCard.
  • Payment plans are also available for full program of 5 sessions.

Make your booking on my Booking Page.

Chariklo – the partner of Chiron & Lady Shaman

Transformational Relationship Coaching

transformational relationship coaching with ally

Transformational relationship coaching with Ally is now available.

I’m not sure you know this, but I am a Transformational Relationship Coach.

What is Transformational Relationship Coaching?

Using NLP (Neurological Linguistic Programming) techniques, I can help you with relationship issues – lack of confidence, trust issues, emotional release, sex or porn-addiction, ED or PE … These NLP techniques can help men or women who wish to get over a relationship trauma, learn to love again, and have a more romance and a more fulfilling sex life.

So if you’ve been wishing you had someone to confide in, talk to, and overcome something in your relationship with your partner, (or lack of a partner), that is holding you back, email me a bit of background about your issue and I’ll make a recommendation.

Here’s some guidelines for helping me help you with your Transformational Relationship Coaching: (please send me these answers)

  • Your age, location, and gender.
  • Your relationship status.
  • #1 issue you are struggling with.
  • Additional issues you’re struggling with.
  • The outcome you desire.
  • Any previous experience with a coach, therapist or psychiatrist.
  • Physical health issues and medications you’re on.
  • Emotional health issues and medications you’re on.

Sometimes in just one or two sessions, you can get the strategies you need to move past what is holding you back.

Many people get STUCK in the past and ruin their future because of their own blind spots. You can release negative beliefs, let go of limiting and transparent beliefs to create the life you want and deserve!

If you want help, I’m happy to help you. To love yourself and others, to be loved in return.

What do you have to do?

You must be willing to commit to a program of one hourly coaching sessions – weekly, fortnightly or monthly, preferably in person.

Your first session will be approximately 30-minute phone or Zoom discussion, which is free so we can meet each other and connect (if we haven’t already met).

A one day Fast Track Breakthrough session is also available.

For physical issues, I have also helped men, women and couples with Tantra Massage therapy, based in Adelaide. I sometimes travel inter-state to most capital cities.

I also offer Personal Coaching Packages for weekly fortnightly or monthly sessions. And payment plans. More information on my Coaching page HERE

Ally

How to love your self

How do you LOVE your self? a Valentines Day special post

How do you love your self? If you already do, how do you love yourself more? Here are some ideas to enhance your love, or to refine it.

love your self with tantra massage by Ally
LOVE

  1. Say “I love you” to yourself in the mirror. Say “I am beautiful” or “I am handsome” until you mean it, until you can FEEL you are beautiful and handsome. If you don’t know how it feels, imagine how someone you think is beautiful and handsome would feel, and feel that way, then make the feeling stronger.
  2. Think of a body part you are ashamed of, or a scar, or something about yourself you feel negative about. Imagine how you would feel about someone else who has that thing. Feel the compassion you would feel for that person and transfer it to feeling the same amount of compassion for your self.
  3. Be grateful for the body you have. It’s not perfect. It may not work how it used to several years ago, or it may work differently. I have a friend who is paralysed from the neck downwards, and when I think of him, I am very grateful for my freedom of movement, being able to walk, dance, scratch myself, and enjoy life fully
  4. Feel the fear and do it anyway.
  5. Compassion exercise from Avatar:
  6. Spoil yourself like a seven year old child. What did you love doing when you were a kid? What did you want to do that you could then, that you can now? Treat yourself to an icecream, go for a walk in the park, go fishing, read a book out loud.
  7. Change your self talk. When you look in the mirror, be aware and listen to what you say to your self. Listen to yourself and if you hear the negative words in your head, shut your eyes. Think of the opposite – love your breasts, chest, body shape, scars and bruises, lumps and bumps, hairiness or lack of hair. Now change your judgement from “too big/small” to “the right size and shape for me”. My girlfriend used to say “I may have small breasts, but I have racy nipples!” Then open your eyes and see your beauty, your possibilities, your radiance reflected there.

Song

I love myself the way I am,

There’s nothing I need to change.

I’ll always be the perfect me,

There’s nothing to rearrange.

I’m beautiful and capable,

Of being the best me I can,

And I love myself just the way I am.

 

Personal and Relationship Coaching by Skype

Relationship Coaching for Men Women and Couples

Coaching for Relationships

Relationship Coaching with Ally can help you release emotional, physical blocks in relationships with yourself and others.

To simply and powerfully change your mindset, beliefs and behaviour so that you can handle negative experiences, eliminate phobias, anxiety, stress; release emotion and fears.

To change limiting and transparent beliefs so that you can feel positive, happy and loved.

Personal Coaching

Do you have personal issues and concerns about your sexuality, your body, your libido?

Do you want to be in relationship and feel too scared because you ve been hurt emotionally, mentally or physically?

Are you in a relationship and not satisfied with your love life, your sex life or your communication?

Want to improve your communication in your relationship?

Ally’s Personal Coaching is confidential and she creates a safe space to heal your past experiences with difficulties in having an orgasm, sexual abuse, sexual harassment, sexual dysfunction and other personal relationship issues.

Ally offers face to face coaching by Skype, phone or in person

Relationship coaching with Ally
The love that is defined by a relationship is limited. Dive deep into a Love that is beyond relationships

Coaching for Women

Sensual Healing for Women – Women’s re-connection Program

Do you lack interest in having sex or making love?
Have you been unable to have an orgasm?
Have you lost touch with your sensuality and sexuality?
Do you want to learn more about sex and how to enjoy it more?
Do you want to get your sex drive back?
Have you lost your libido during Menopause? after hysterectomy? after childbirth?

Healing shame, guilt and fear with love and sensuality.
A sacred sexuality empowerment for women
Practical education about women business
How to tune in to your feminine power and essence

ESSENCE of Woman Program = Empowering Sacred Spiritual Energy aNd Creating Essence
More details HERE

Coaching for Men

Do you want to last longer? Do you have erection or ejaculation concerns?
Do you have trouble getting or keeping your erection?
Would you like to learn new ways to pleasure your partner?
Have you had prostate surgery and want to learn how to adjust to the changes, how to control your erection, and still have amazing pleasure?.

Coaching for Couples

Do you feel he just wants sex and she wants love hugs and cuddles?

Do you think she just wants to cuddle and doesn’t want to make love with you any more?

Is she too busy with the kids and too tired to make love?

Is she going through menopause and does not want sex any more, and you want it just as much as ever?

Ally can give you both sex love and intimacy coaching and counselling in safe supportive confidential environment. More details HERE

Coaching Rates

Clarity Call – 30 minutes by phone or Skype -introduction and Qualifying Questions – FREE

Personal Coaching – 1 hour coaching session $250, 3 sessions $600, 6 sessions $900

Relationship Coaching – 1 hour coaching session $250, 3 sessions $600, 6 sessions $900

Men – 1 hour coaching session $250, 3 x 1 hour sessions $600, 6 x 1 hour sessions $900

Women – 1 hour coaching session $250, 3 x 90 minute sessions for $500 or 4 sessions for $600

Couples – 1 hour coaching session $250, 3 x 2 hour sessions $1050

Sessions can be weekly or fortnightly, between 10am and 9pm Monday to Thursday.

BOOK HERE

orgasm advice from Ally at My Tantra Massage
She: I enjoy our relationship but I fake my orgasms. He: How ironic! I fake our relationship but I enjoy my orgasms!

add spice to your relationship with Ally
No relationship is perfect, but the right one will lift you up, not bring you down, fill you with joy, not tears. It will support you to be a better you