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What is self love?

Self love is being in heart space.

How do I get out of head space – thoughts, feelings, chatter, busy busy? And relax into my heart and love my self?energy_heart_sm

Here are 6 ways:

  1. Awareness
    Increase your awareness of your body – tense your hands, feel the tension – then relax them and feel the release. Screw up your face and hold your breath, then relax and smile. Stretch out one leg and circle your foot, be aware of your foot moving; then stretch the other leg out and circle the other foot, awareness in your toes. Rub your hand on your tummy if you are sitting down, on your buttock or thigh if you are standing, feeling from the inside, being aware of the sensations only. Be aware of loving your body’s movement and stillness. Send gratitude and love to your body for the way it automatically responds to your thoughts.
  2. Breath
    Sit quietly, placing one hand on your heart and the other on your belly. Breathe out into your belly, feel it rise and fall. Be aware of your breath going in and out through your mouth and nose. Take 20 breaths, imagining your breath coming in through your belly and circulating up to your heart – loving your self.
  3. Chanting meditation
    Use Indian mantras or your favourite TV jingle, or a favourite song or poem. Out loud is best. Also humming works, or whispering. When you can hear it, the sound resonates.
    When you are in a group eg saying AUM or singing, the sound amplifies, and the energy is stronger.
    When you meditate on the repetitive sound, it can take you away from your thoughts and worries, and bring you into the present moment, ready to love your self.
  4. Dancing and movement
    Dancing is a good way to love your self. When you dance you can be lost in the moment. Free flow dancing is great exercise and a good way to release tension and relax your whole body. Movement, even swaying as you are sitting, can release tension so that you can relax, enjoy the moment and love your self.
  5. Massage and stroking
    I love touch, massage and stroking, so my biased opinion is also for you to stroke your self lovingly. Caress your face, your hair, your head, as if you were caressing your lover. You are! Then extend the touch to your arms and shoulders, stroke down your torso, your body, breasts, legs toes and feet. You can use soft fabrics like velvet, or find a feather to stroke yourself with for a different feeling. Massage that love in!
  6. Voyeur
    If you want to really stretch loving your self and your physical body – stand in front of a full length mirror and look at yourself – lovingly. Praise all the parts of your body you normally criticise. Stroke, massage, preen, and love that wonderful sexy person in the mirror! Watch what happens to your face and how you feel about your self afterwards…

Meditation is another way to get in touch with your self and love your self.

  • Use a candle to look at – focus on the flame and watch your thoughts go by – coming back to the contemplation of the candle.
  • Use the smell of incense to waft you away into a meditative reverie.
  • Read a book and love your self to be lost in the world of your imagination.
  • Slowly touch and stroke your body for self pleasure, whispering positive loving words of love eg
    • I love my legs which carry me through life
    • I appreciate my hands to feel my body
    • I love my skin, its softness and hardness and hairiness
    • I enjoy my genitals being gently stroked and held
    • I love my eyes to see sunsets sunrises and people I love
    • I love my self
    • I love me, I do.

If you would like to love your self more, pamper your self, and combine 3 of the 6 ways above, contact me for a Tantra Massage! Bookings HERE and my Schedule HERE.

Ally Thomas 2016

Bliss Balls – new colours

Bliss Balls – what are they?

Bliss Balls are furry, fluffy pleasuring mittens for more pleasure for your partner or your Self…
Run them over her body and she will shiver with delight, relaxing under the soft touch of sensual fur.

Designed for the sensual woman and her lover who wants to please her more, help her relax.

A pampering gift for a sensual woman to spoil herself…

One size fits all hands

Colours available by request – Hot Pink*, Hot Purple, Soft Mauve*, Racy Red*, Orgasmic Orange, pure white*, Emerald green, Lime Green, Royal Red,  Purple swirl

$20 each, 2 for $30

New 2018 colours shown below

furry Bliss Ball for Tantra Massage for pleasuring women
*furry Bliss Ball for Tantra Massage for pleasuring women (and men)

**Brown Furry and Black Furry are much thicker fur and $29 each or 2 for $50

Buy her one or 2 Bliss Balls for a unique pleasuring gift – for Christmas, Birthday, Anniversary, Mothers Day, or just for no particular reason at all – just because you Love Her!

SPECIAL For Mothers Day in May – powder pink 2 for $10 – limited numbers available!

Order HERE now before her favourite colour sells out!

Or book HERE for a pampering pleasuring massage to try them out

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Your Pleasure

What is your pleasure?

your pleasure Tantric massage with Ally

Your Pleasure is relaxing, enjoying, doing nothing, receiving. Pleasure is surrendering to being pleasured. In giving pleasure you often receive it as well.

What gives you pleasure? Giving gifts, giving compliments, receiving touch, receiving compliments, hearing someone say “I love you”? Doing spontaneous special things for your spouse, for your friend, with your lover, to your partner? Receiving a special present of time or a quality item?

Is it appreciating a sunset or a babies smile or child’s first steps? Smelling fresh mown grass or hay? Eating a beautiful meal of a smorgasbord of tastes and colours? Or hearing a special song that makes you feel romantic or loved?

Do you enjoy reading a book, meditating, or learning something new? Check out my book “What Women Really Want – 6 Tantric Sex Techniques for Men and Couples” HERE

A child’s pleasure is delight, wonder of a ladybird or a new toy – which can be a cardboard box!
A teenager’s pleasure could be a night of passionate sex!
An adult’s pleasure could be the delicious taste of a delicate wine, or a breath of fresh air or the stars at night…

Your pleasure can be the absence of pain or the edge or pain – it’s different things to different people…

A smile expresses pleasure. If you add sound of laughter it builds and spreads more, from one person to another. A baby’s giggle, a child’s laugh, and adults chuckle make us smile or laugh too Laughter is infectious, bubbling up and transferring from you to me…

Pleasure turns sadness into happiness, joy into bliss,
giggles into laughter and ennui into love.

What is your greatest pleasure?

You can experience a Tantra Pleasure Experience – a taste of Tantra with Ally today, this week. More details HERE, make a Booking, call on 0419 038 310 if you are in Adelaide EMAIL if you are in Australia, New Zealand or any country in the world…

Your pleasure is medicine and love has the power to heal with tantra massage
Pleasure is medicine and love has the power to heal. Devi Ward

Premature ejaculation control

MEN

  • Do you come too quickly? Are you frustrated by PE? see PE
  • Want to learn how to last longer? For yourself for more pleasure, or to pleasure your partner more? see CONTROL
  • Do you have ejaculation problems? Either coming too soon or not being able to come when you want to? Ask Ally about Tantric breath techniques.
  • Do you have erection problems or erectile dysfunction? See ED post
  • Does performance anxiety and/or low self confidence in love-making worry you?
  • Do you have performance anxiety, low self confidence in love-making?
  • Have you had prostate problems, prostate surgery? see PROSTATE (below)
  •  Are you too stressed or too tired to perform in bed? Are you or your partner unsatisfied because one wants more sexual activity than the other?Tantric techniques can help  you.

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Definitions of PE

Premature ejaculation (PE) is a condition in which a man ejaculates earlier than he or his partner would like him to. Premature ejaculation is also known as rapid ejaculation, rapid climax, premature climax, or early ejaculation. The most common definition is that premature ejaculation occurs if the ejaculation occurs within two minutes of penetration (wikipedia). Premature ejaculation can be differentiated between two types: primary, which is present from the time a male begins puberty, and secondary which is acquired later in the man’s life. Premature ejaculation can be further divided between; global premature ejaculation, which occurs with all partners and in all contexts and situational premature ejaculation which occurs in certain situation or with specific partners

Most men experience premature ejaculation at least once in their lives. Because there is great variability in both how long it takes to ejaculate and how long both partners want sex to last, if at all, an accurate prevalence rate is hard to determine… (from Wikipedia)

“At the 2006 Congress of the European Society for Sexual Medicine, an American research paper reported:

  • the average lasting time of men with PE was 1.8 minutes
  • ‘normal’ men lasted an average of 7.3 minutes.

But there were males who claimed to have premature ejaculation, yet who could last up to 25 minutes. This clearly shows people have wildly differing ideas about what is normal!”

“Premature ejaculation (PE)is also known as rapid or fast or early or involuntary ejaculation. It is defined as persistent or recurrent ejaculation with minimal stimulation, either before, upon or shortly after penetration and before a person wishes it. This disturbance causes distress and interpersonal difficulties and can lead to decreased satisfaction to either one or both partners. It is now also recognized that ejaculation happens with little or no voluntary control.”          

You are NOT alone

Premature Ejaculation is widely believed to be the most common male sexual dysfunction, it affects between 20% and 30% of men and affects men of all ages.                                         (http://www.sexualhealthaustralia.com.au)

Premature ejaculation is a common sexual problem observed in men worldwide. It can cause frustration, guilt and performance anxiety.
Often PE, ED and other sexual problems are caused by anxiety, depression, worry, overwork, stress, tiredness, guilt and bereavement. Other factors can be obesity, diabetes, alcohol, smoking, nicotine and other drugs (recreational and depression).

Many men suffer from premature ejaculation for a long time because they find it embarrassing to talk about their sexual problems with doctors, therapists, partners or friends. The problem is not doing anything about it, because if you don’t do anything, it will get worse. So you need to take action TODAY!

The reason it’s so quick goes back to when you learned about your sexuality and masturbation. It had to be quiet and quick, so you didn’t get caught, didn’t it?! And so now you need to learn how to control it – to last longer, to be louder, so that you can have more pleasure and so your partner can have more too…

And then there are times that it comes up when you don’t want it to, and others when you want it to and it doesn’t. Its all about control – coming when you want to, not when it wants to!

As you know, there are SO many treatments, cures and drugs (Viagra and other pills and potions, injections), clinics and therapists offering solutions. These don’t work for everyone, and they all have side-effects, some worse than what you are trying to heal!
However if you would like to learn the natural way (no drugs, no sniffing) to control, as taught to many Emperors, Kings, Princes in ancient India and China, then you’re at the right place to find out about Tantra.

Control

Learning Tantric exercises can help you control your erection, your orgasms (so you can have many), your ejaculation (which is different from orgasm – when you learn how to control it).

It’s easy to learn, and in my first (of 3) sessions you can learn how to do it and practise so that you get the experience of how it works. Then its up to you to practise more!

Learn how to last longer, elevate your sexual bliss and control your ejaculation naturally with Tantra

Prostate

If you have had prostate surgery, you can learn how to control your erection, and still have amazing pleasure, with Tantric techniques. Also see ED page for natural Australian healing oil which can also help you.

For a confidential, safe, enjoyable one hour session, make an appointment to see me NOW!

See my Testimonials below and HERE for success stories.

Contact Ally now or make a booking on the Booking Page

Testimonials

Hi Ally,

This is the testimonial I promised you in appreciation for your (extra) time & most wonderful experience you provided me with.
As mentioned I discussed with an Indian doctor that I have difficulty getting then maintaining an erection. I guess I was looking for a quick fix drug such as Viagra but the Doc suggested I try Tantra in the first instance while I undergo all the usual health tests. He suggested that I might actually enjoy the experience even if I was unable to get and/or maintain an erection. (How right he was!) Anyway, I decided to give Tantra a go, but being a sceptical person I thought I would possibly have a relaxing massage but be back to the doctor for the miracle drug! (How wrong was I?)
Anyway, I happened upon your site & I’m so glad I did as you managed to assist me in gaining a reasonable erection which, with your physical efforts & verbal instructions I was able to maintain. In addition, you brought me very close to ejaculation several times. I felt so good with my apparent orgasm/s which I didn’t think could happen with males.
Ally taught me to breathe & control intimate muscles. Breathing was sometimes difficult to control as Ally’s wonderful touches & beautiful presence often took my breath away. It is so hard to explain, Ally’s touches had all of my senses going totally crazy & I think I lost control of reality & moved into a land of fantasy. (God she is good! How does she do this?).
Ally is a very professional & intelligent lady in that she can talk to you as the client explaining the concept of Tantra & keep your attention as a teacher but when she is with you in a more intimate position she is so very, very sexual almost as if she is transformed between a teacher, masseuse & intimate partner but all the time explaining that this is self love. Well if this is self love, I would want Ally there to share it, she is simply fantastic.
Thank you so much Ally I love you for being a true professional who is a such a wonderfully patient & understanding person but especially for providing me with the most breathtaking sexual experience that left me relaxed, drained, satisfied & just about any other pleasant feeling I could imagine. If you were a drug, I’d be addicted.
When our session finished I realised we had gone a little overtime but it felt like I was with you much longer. I don’t mind saying that you had me trembling with an indescribable feeling of pleasure. Then, being the ultimate professional that you obviously are, you surprised me again by not rushing me out of the door but sat me down to discuss my feelings & allowing me the time with you to just talk.
I was so very comfortable with your company (I’m often a little awkward with one-on-one female company outside of business) I didn’t want to leave …
Let me assure that you & the experience you gave me will be etched in my memory for sometime
A good price for a great service………A very satisfied client………….Thanks Ally, I’ll be back……..Soon!
Ally, you said I should let out my true feelings & at the moment these are my feelings. I just wish I could express such feelings in better words; but how do I describe perfection (you & what you do) & what is in my mind, or more to the point my heart. In such a short time you have made me take a breath, not just on your table but in my life. I may not have stopped working but I’m rescheduling my 24/7 workload to allow for a break or two, in fact I called up a couple of old friends (nothing to do with work) & we are having dinner tonight. I would like to use your service as a future time out (it beats fishing).
Kind regards, T

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Harbouring Halloween erotic poem

Harbouring Halloween 

It was the dark of the moon
the dark goddess came out
and she wore white lace
to seduce and bewitch with a pout.

She danced to her inner music
and he watched, in a trance
while she turned and twirled
weaving her erotic love dance.

Then they undressed each other
slowly, languidly, with the tide
this except for her lacy G string,
which he gently moved aside.

Revelling in her juiciness
he licked and teased her venus mound
while she leaned to find handholds
on the Nav. table and all round.

Then, with her legs in the air
and her body open wide
the dark of the moon reflected in his eyes
as he slid gently inside.

The yacht rocked gently
under the Horn-ed moon
the lapping of the sea water
kept rhythm with their sexy tune.

Did anyone in the marina hear
their moans of passionate sex?
Her quivers and gasps of ecstasy?
His tremendous climax?

Perhaps only the fish
under the boat’s keel
sheltering from the storm
out in the Keppel sea….

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Seduction Bliss – erotic poem

Seduction Bliss 

The goddess in her power
chooses her consort
invite him into her pleasure temple
arouses his sexual fire. 

She pleasures him from behind
body slides joining energy
with ecstatic sighs and mutual movement. 

He turns over
slowly languidly
but rising and antic ……. i …… pation
and lies there, expecting more. 

She feels his heart is full
overflowing energy expressed in kisses
she spreads it outward
his strong masculine energy mirrors its expansion. 

She pleasures with her hands
stroking, teasing, tempting and spreading
his rhythm and undulations are stronger
she blisses him in many ways. 

Feeling the time is right
she strokes up his legs
slowly teasing his thighs, his cock
to spread full length in united undulation. 

Slipping and sliding on oily sensations
moving in harmony to the universal rhythm
lovingly connected on lots of levels
we join as one in the light. 

Tingling and shaking together
we are dancing in ecstasy
taste touch smells sight and sound
the music lifts us higher. 

Finally we explode
with ecstatic pleasure
oozing out every pore…
slowly returning to this place
satiated relaxed with enjoyment and bliss!

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Pleasure Dance – erotic poem

Pleasure dance

Starting slowly

your kiss tingles and teases

tentatively

nibbled nipples

expand the feeling

of arousal

warm glow spreads down

my body

engulfing all with sensitivity.

The circuit is joined

between 2 nipples and Cleo

reports of pleasure

begin flow to the music.

As your tongue flicks

the waves of exquisiteness

peak again and again

I drown in ecstasy.

Fingers explore and expand

Scouting and surveying

arousal becomes a need

“I want you–now!”

As I writhe in anticipation

feeling the tentative head

hesitating at my entrance

then plunging in – to fill me

Into the smooth sensuous satin

of my juicy receptive warmth

your hot throbbing strength in

the thrusting rhythm of love.

As we dance all over the bed

sending pleasure back and forth

bodies locked in enjoyment

of the pleasure dance.

Couple tantric red Shiva Shakti dance artbyMarkLee

 

Bliss – erotic poem

He teased me with his tongue

tempted me

thrilled me

touched me with fingertips

until I shuddered and twitched with pleasure.

Tips of tongues

rimming lips

fingertips caressing the bare skin

of my arms

my waist, hips

my inner thighs.

My juices flowed

sweet dampness in my knickers

my lips quivered and opened

as he circled on the edge

teasing me again.

His lips licked my nipples

and sucked them sweetly

my moans and sighs escaped

into the night.

In his fingers wandered down

to explore my sweet wetness

stimulating and teasing

bringing on waves of pleasure.

Our kisses joined the circle

Electric energy flowing both ways

our energies soared together

United with the rapture of love.

And then he knelt on top

so he could lick me better

and I sucked him all the way

sweetly joined and spiritual ecstasy

I lost track of the number of orgasms

cresting on peaks of bliss

we moaned and breathed together

radiating out from our kiss.

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Khajuraho couple by Ally Tantra

Tantric Surfing – erotic poem

Tantric surfing

On a hot summer night, when the moon is full

And you can’t sleep, what do you do?

Toss and turn, read a book?

Masturbate or make love or have a look?

Sigh at the golden moon

Run barefoot in the grass

Feeling the cool damp air

Hearing the air conditioners whine

Smelling the freshness of night

As the stars twinkle and re-appear.

And softly with feather strokes

The hand caresses my eager skin

First hesitant and tentative

With gentle finger tips on my arms

Then firmer palm strokes

Up and down my legs and back

Circling round my buttocks

And gently stroking my hair.

Teasing my thighs

Circling my stomach

Exploring the sensitive bits under my upper arms

Awakens my senses

Inflames my desires.

Soft kisses all over my back

Trailing along my side

Deliciously stimulating my sexuality

Gently licking circles around my breasts

So that my nipples are softly sucked

Bring forth moans of pleasure.

As my body arches with need

Fingers finally find my wetness

Circling softly around my clit

With two fingers

Then up and down with three finger salute

As the juices start to run.

Rising and falling on waves of pleasure

My breath gets louder

Orgasms come and go

As my body vibrates to the rhythm

Begging for release.

on the edge

 Getting to the edge

But not going all the way over

Staying on the edge of pleasure –

Multiple orgasms

Without release

Relaxing the tension

Expanding the ecstasy

For as long as possible….

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Tantric breath sound smell

Taste and imagery

Combines with silken touch

To take me to the pinnacle

And finally over

Coasting the waves to the beach

Lying naked on the sand

Satiated my needs

For this moment.

by Ally 19 January 2014

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Crystal Fire striptease – erotic poem

Crystal Fire Striptease Dancer

Slowly sensuously she strips

in the setting Queensland sun

on the stage of the semi

part of the bikers weekend fun

A volunteer is needed

to rub on oil and be in the show

The Leader gets the pleasure

to massage her top to toe

She dances and struts and shimmies

To music sexy and slow

turning on these rough tough men

teasing them to want more to know

After the show is over

a request for her favour is made

but “I’d rather be your fantasy forever

than a reality that will quickly fade”.

Read more about Crystal Fire in “What Women Really Want”
ebook available now, print book available in 2016

Crystal Fire striptease Queensland
Crystal Fire striptease in Queensland