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What is Tantra

Here is an excerpt from the Introduction of my book “What Men and Women Really Want – 6 Tantric Love Secrets” for you to ponder over.

What is Tantra?

Tantra* is a buzz word that most people have heard, but not so many really understand. Some people think it’s a form of kinky sex. Or they have heard that Sting has Tantric sex for over five hours. Others believe that it is esoteric, involving meditation and ritual. I hope to explain its simplicity and share with you some practical, fun ways to use Tantra in your life.

Introducing Ally

Hi I’m Ally Thomas. Since July 2009, I have taught, pleasured and inspired thousands of people, educating them about Tantra and sacred sexuality. I have helped them to tune in to their sexual and spiritual energy. And also to learn how to love themselves more fully and deeply. 

My first experience of Tantra was in 1996. While visiting a girlfriend in Adelaide, I noticed a brochure entitled ‘Women’s Sexuality Workshop’ on her coffee table. I just had to read it!  Barbara Carellas, a world renowned Tantra Teacher, was coming to town. My friend had done a women’s workshop with Barbara a while ago. She told me that Barbara teaches women how to have an orgasm without touching themselves.  Intrigued, I booked in.  It was an amazing experience. I, and most of the other women in the workshop, succeeded in learning how to have incredible energetic orgasms! Also I ended up attending a further three of her workshops for women. Then I attended Barbara’s Tantra Workshop evening for men and women.  This was my very first taste of Tantra, and I was curious to learn more. Since then I have read and studied many books, attended courses and seminar with different teachers and gurus. I have also practised with friends and lovers. I am passionate about learning and experiencing more about Tantra.

Why am I so passionate about Tantra in my life?

My experience of Tantra is that is unites the physical and the spiritual. It is about joining awareness with breath, to balance and harmonise my masculine and feminine energies. Tantra also enables me to experience ecstasy, joy and bliss.

Why do I love teaching about Tantra by giving a Tantra Massage?

I call it a Tantra Pleasure Experience. My first pleasure is feeling my hands stroking and pleasuring the other person’s body. The second pleasure is from watching and hearing their ecstatic moans and groans. Listening to them trying to describe their feeling of delicious euphoria – the tingling, vibrating energy spreading through their body. Before, during or afterwards. My third pleasure is taking people to another place. It’s a space that is hard to describe in words. It often leaves them relaxed and energized at the same time!

Tantra Benefits

The benefits of Tantra experiences include:

  • relaxation or euphoria
  • healing of physical pain
  • experiencing a Spiritual Energy Orgasm
  • relief from stress
  • surrendering to pleasure instead of feeling that you have to give back.

There are many ideas and misconceptions about Tantra, because it’s not easy to adequately describe the experience of Tantra. I am grateful for permission to use some of my clients’ words and testimonials who have attempted to define it. These are given in Appendix 1. However, as I often say, it’s like trying to explain sex to a virgin!

This book is for the adventurous man or woman, ready to pleasure and cherish herself or himself. Or his or her lover. You will need a bit of patience to practise the ancient art of Tantra. This can lead to you becoming a satisfied, contented partner. For some people you will experience an increase in your masculine or feminine energy, greater confidence and mutual ecstasy. This book is for men or women to buy and share with their partner, lover or spouse. Importantly, it’s for couples to share with each other.

In this exciting book, I will give you six powerful secrets gained from over 18 years of experience learning and practising Tantra. My extensive teaching using Tantra massage, playshops, workshops and presentations is reflected here. And my knowledge from coaching and counselling thousands of men, women and couples all over Australia and New Zealand.

Tantra Love Secrets in this book

You will discover what is Tantra:

  • How to last longer in the bedroom – what every man and woman wants…in Chapter 1.
  • How to relax and pleasure a woman with sensual massage techniques – and have her begging you for more…in Chapter 6. What every woman really wants!
  • In Chapter 3  …you will learn how you can have a spiritual energy orgasm by yourself, without touching yourself!
  • How to connect at a deeper level with each other and pleasure your lover more. The secret that every passionate couple wants to know…in Chapter 5.
  • In Chapter 4…Tantra massage and yoni massage
  • How to take your sexual experience with your lover to another level with Tantric sex techniques.
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Each chapter title is a Love Secret, based on the letters in the word TANTRA:

T is for Teasing …

A is for Aah! (Breathing)

N is for Now

T is for Touch

R is for Rapport

A is for Amore (Love)

How to use this book and unlock Tantra for you

You can read any chapter first, as it’s not sequential. Just jump in wherever you like! The words in bold* refer to words in the extensive Glossary towards the end of the book.

Each letter stands for an aspect of Tantra that you can use and practise – by yourself or with a partner. Tantric techniques can help to improve your sex life, enrich your relationship, empower your lover and reach higher fulfilment together. Inside your sacred space* (a special physical place, usually separate from your bedroom, where you create an area for your Tantra practice) as well as in your bedroom. I am using examples which are based on my personal experience with lovers, Tantric consorts and clients. All testimonials have permission to be used, and names have been protected. My integrity and confidentiality is essential when teaching sacred sexuality and intimacy, especially to couples.

Assistance with Sexual dysfunctions

Sexual dysfunctions (PE, ED) and other sexual problems experienced by men and women can often be healed with application of natural Tantric methods. Also sexual education is used, as people often have missed out on human sex ed.

Use this book to help you surrender to enjoyment, release stress and relax more, and give and receive pleasure. As a result, you can enjoy more joy and bliss in your life. The main key secret in Tantra is love. Loving yourself, loving your partner, and connecting your hearts, bodies, emotions, minds and spirits together in harmony and bliss. What women really want (and men too) is to be loved, to feel loved. Men and women want to be touched with love, to hear that they are loved, see that they are loved, to taste and smell love. Here are some old and new ways to do this.

At the end of each chapter, you will find a Tantric Exercise. These exercises are practical ways to bring the experience of Tantra into your life and relationships. There are also links to videos, stories, and Tantra techniques throughout the book. These give you practical guidance on how to discover and experience Tantra for yourself and your partner. To dispel myths, fears and misconceptions about Tantra, Tantra massage and sacred sexuality, I also include some powerful educational information.

See some of my free Tantra tips at http://www.mytantramassage.com.au.

For more information see the 4 Appendices in the book. Words in bold are linked and defined in the Glossary.

Enjoy reading, sharing and practising the exercises in my book, starting with ‘T for Tease’ in Chapter one….

For your Tantric pleasure,
Ally

* see Glossary.

Get your copy Now

To get an ebook copy of this book HERE

Order a paperback copy of this book HERE

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“What Men and Women Really Want – 6 Tantric Love Secrets”

A paperback book by Ally Thomas

Description

“What Men and Women Really Want – 6 Tantric Love Secrets” is the updated print version of my e-book “What Men and Women Really Want – 6 Tantric Sex Techniques”.
Published in 2017, it contains photos, diagrams, a comprehensive Glossary and lots of practical ideas to inspire you to take your lover to new heights of pleasure and love.

What Does Every Man and Woman Want?!

♦   How to relax and pleasure your lover with sensual massage techniques – and have him/her begging you for more…

♦  How to connect at a deeper level with each other and pleasure your lover more – the secret that every passionate couple wants to know

♦  How to transform intimacy with your lover to another level with these six tantric secrets

My experience of Tantra is that it unites the physical and the spiritual, joining awareness with breath, to balance and harmonise my masculine and feminine energies and enable me to experience unlimited joy and bliss.

A teaser for you is an excerpt from Chapter 1 – see my blog “Crystal Fire – the biggest strip tease!” HERE

It is A5 size – ideal for reading anywhere, any time. You can read the chapters in any order.

Reviews for “What Men and Women Really Want”

“Easy to read and simple to follow, this book is filled with practical ideas and techniques. Recommended as a great introduction to Tantra and a practical guide to exploring your own pleasure and expressing/sharing this with your partner.” Jen Marr

“Ally’s book is packed with great secrets that women really want their lovers not only to know about, but importantly, do, in bed.” Diane Riley author of “Sexy and Sacred”

“Simple, clear, easy, and very helpful. I really enjoyed reading this! It offers many wonderful suggestions to improve the quality of our connections. Highly recommended.” by Ed Love

“I’m enjoying reading your book and resonate to many of your core values. My old patterns coming up, becoming conscious and releasing. Coming out of that space now and into clarity, and reading your book has helped.
It’s great to read more of your story – the life you have lived, the things you have learned, and the way you are sharing it with others. Amazing! You’ve always been right out there pushing the boundaries and inviting others to enjoy the new space. I also feel strongly that the libido needs to be freed, socially and individually, especially in the christian west.”
Neville Hyde

For more information: see Ally’s AUTHOR page on her website.

ISBN: 0-9946228-1-3

Cost

  • Australian Dollars $20
  • US – approximately US$14
  • Europe – approximately Euro13
  • UK – approximately GBP12

Express Postage per copy
* Australia AU$10
* Overseas – depends on country, just ask.

Payment available by eftpos, Direct Debit, Bank Transfer, Visa.

ORDER HERE NOW

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Woman’s Pain

MTM blog March 2023

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Many clients and friends have come to me or asked for help about lack of interest or waning interest in making love and having sex. Either personally or for their partner. For example:

  • I am not sexually attracted to my partner now, and I used to be.
  • I don’t want to have sex with him.
  • Now that we’ve had kids, I’m not interested in sex.
  • It hurts to have sexual intercourse.
  • I feel insecure and unconfident about my sexual skills.
  • I’ve lost my libido and I don’t know where to find it!
  • It’s uncomfortable to make love.
  • I am not happy with my body image, size, shape etc.
  • My wife lost interest in sex when we had children, but I still need sexual release. (men
  • I have never had an orgasm and I want to have one (women.

I believe a lot of these issues start from a woman or a man’s first sexual experience. A woman’s pain is often a very deep wound.

Girls and romance

Many movies are romantic with kissing and tenderness and girls and teenagers are wooed with these ideas – where male lovers are romantic and gentle and treat women with love and respect and ask for consent.  They believe that these movies are real.

Boys and porn

Boys and men watch or read porn, where all women are wet, horny, ready and willing to do any act that a man can ask for. And men are always large, hard and able to have sex for hours and hours. They get the idea that these movies are real

Sex Ed

Most sexual education does not prepare women or men for their first sexual encounter. A teenage male does not look at photos of yonis and clitoris* (see photo above), to know that the sizes and shapes are different. He often does not know that a woman’s arousal takes a lot longer than his. He doesn’t know about women’s sensitive spots and erogenous zones, where to find them and how to stimulate them. And that women are different and have different reactions on different days and times. They often desire a slow, sensual lingering body stroking and teasing sensations. Sometimes they want it hot hard and fast!

Hymen

Teenage females (and males) are often not told about the hymen. The hymen is that little thin piece of skin which covers the external opening of the yoni. It will be broken the first time a woman has intercourse, which often results in bleeding and is always painful, physically and emotionally.

Even the word hymen, which is Latin, is the same in many languages and does not seem to be feminized in any way.

Virgins

So, for her first time, she is expecting a loving romantic gentle uplifting experience, and her fantasies are shattered by pain and blood. He is expecting an excited, wet easy and quick experience (just like masturbation) and as a result he can get performance anxiety!

Neither one knows what they are doing, and each is extremely disappointed.

Emotional trauma, shame and guilt, can result, especially if adolescents are not educated about these things. There is often emotional scarring and sex can often be associated with pain and trauma for the rest of her life.

So the next time, she is tense and fearful of pain, so she doesn’t relax. He is tentative and unsure, not wanting to hurt her either.

The woman cannot relax enough to enjoy making love with her male partner and sees it as an onerous duty.

Alternatives

Open communication and education is the key. Her mother, older sibling or peers can sometimes be helpful here. Books and the internet can be helpful or misleading information sources.

Conversely, if your first sexual experience is planned, consensual, and deliberately, gently and lovingly experienced, you can be more relaxed and open to orgasms.

I have included a photo of the whole clitoris*, as it is only the sensitive tip that is visible outside a woman’s body. Yes, it does look similar to external masculine genitals. The invisible bulbs are shown here as engorged when a woman is fully aroused. Being under a woman’s skin makes it difficult for both her and her partner to know what is going on. Verbal consent and communication is paramount for your mutual satisfaction and pleasure.

Other cultures

In some cultures, an older relative teaches the young person of the same or other gender. For example, an uncle teaches a young woman about sexuality and gender differences or an auntie or close female friend teaches the young man. Sometimes these liaisons (organized and condoned by parents) include the first penetration as well.

Sacred initiation ceremonies at puberty used to include instruction about sexual and spiritual matters by priests and priestesses or elders. These have been lost in modern times.

Orgasms

In life and sex men tend to focus on performance – their own or their partners. When they can let go of the big peak ejaculation, learn how to control their own desires and focus on creating the woman’s pleasure first, then they can have prolonged enjoyment. This makes more pleasure for both.

When women can learn to tune into their own feminine energy and learn how to have their own orgasms, without relying on their male partner, and also how to pleasure them, they can relax more easily and connect deeper.

There are many different types of orgasms – energy orgasms, nipple orgasms, clitoral orgasms, G spot orgasms. Even food orgasms!

Learning to Love Yourself

The key to overcoming these issues is learning how to love yourself, tuning in to your own sexual energy, tuning in to your body’s pleasure, and getting “out of your head”! This can take years or moments, therapy or discussion, confession or disclosure, everyone has a different path.

I can teach you body awareness with Tantric practices using breathwork and massage.

Interesting Fact: Many other mammals also have hymens for example, chimpanzees, horses, llamas, elephants, and whales. (Wikipedia)

If you have any questions or want to learn how to control your orgasm and ejaculation, pleasure your partner more, or have multiple orgasms,

ask Ally.

Ally in Aldinga 2022

Calling women in Aldinga and the southern areas of Adelaide!
Are you interested in finding out about sacred sexuality and Tantra,
tuning in to your feminine energy, and learning how to pamper, pleasure and love yourself more?

Ally Thomas 2022
Ally Thomas

I will be available at Here’s to Strength, a new wellness hub in Aldinga from Wednesday 17 August 2022 on Wednesdays from 10am to 7pm and Saturday afternoons.
On Wednesdays fortnightly I will be available for AccuTouch (acupressure and Reiki) healings for men and women; and Sensual Tantra massages for women only.
On Saturdays in August October and December 2022 I will be facilitating my Sacred Feminine Playshops:

Sacred Feminine Playshops in Aldinga

  • On Saturday 20 August from 2-4pm, come along to an Introduction to Tantra and Sacred Feminine Playshop – women only
    To educate and empower women about sacred sexuality, and help heal shame, guilt and fear with sensuality and love. Open your heart to love and radiance. Tune in to your feminine essence. Connect your mind body & spirit. 4 keys of Tantra. Meditation, dance, movement $30 each
    Tickets #1 (also on 8 October and 3 December)
  • On Saturday 17 September I will present Sacred Feminine Moon Magic Playshop – women only from 2-4pm.
    Tuning in to moon cycles. Connect your head, heart and yoni.
    Womb meditation and healing $30 each
    Tickets #2 (also on 15 October and 10 December)
  • Saturday 1 October I will lead the 3 hour Spiritual Energy Awegasm Playshop for women only
    Use breath for grounding, moving energy, unblock your chakras. Energising & healing. You can turn on or turn up your feminine energy!
    Learn how to have an Awegasm without touching yourself!!
    BYO yoga mat or towel to lie on. Maximum 10 ladies for this Playshop only. 2-5pm. $50 each
    More details HERE
    Tickets #3 (also on 22 October and 17 December)
  • All Sacred Feminine Playshops include meditation, dance, movement and lots of inter-active fun!
  • Please note that all Tantra exercises and massages at Here’s To Strength are non-sexual, energetic, connecting experiences.
  • Events are fully clothed. Any touch is with full consent
  • ALL 3 PLAYSHOPS paid in full $100 – Bookings HERE. More details and tickets HERE

Services in Aldinga from Wednesday 17 August 2022 fortnightly

  • Sex Education Q&A Wednesdays fortnightly 12-1pm – free (17/8/22 and 31/8/22) men and women welcome. Ask your questions about Tantra, sacred sexuality and learn what you didn’t learn in SexEd classes at school!!
  • Full body Tantra massage for women only – $100 for 1 hour session for August (usually $160) Wed 17/8 and 31/8/22. Book HERE
  • Tantra Pleasure Experience is like a massage – very gentle, very relaxing and also energising, with guided visualisation, breathing and Tantra techniques. Women can learn how to enhance your feminine energy and how to move it around your body to relax and enjoy more pleasure. You can clear blocks from past abuse, fears, hurts and other pains that stop you from enjoying your life fully, and balance your chakras so that your energy flows smoothly.
  • Choose from
    • Sensual Massage (relaxing, pampering massage) 1 hour $100 August only (usually $130)
    • Tantra Massage (can include external yoni massage) 1 hour $100 August only(usually $160)
    • Chakra Balancing Massage 1 hour $100 August only (usually $160). There is more information HERE.
  • AccuTouch Healing – for women or men. One-one sessions which include Acupressure, Reiki and NLP modalities to relax and heal mental, emotional, physical and spiritual issues in a non-confronting way with gentle touch (clothed) $90 for August per session (usually about 90 min $150 1st session and 60min $100 2nd session). Paid in advance: 3 x sessions $255, 4 sessions $480. More information HERE.
  • Transformational Relationship Coaching and Counselling
    Using non-confronting NLP (Neurological Linguistic Programming) processes and techniques, I can help you with relationship issues – lack of confidence, trust issues, emotional release, addictions, ED or PE … These NLP techniques can help men or women who wish to get over a relationship trauma, learn to love again, and have more romance and a more fulfilling sex life. For men, women, couples.
    – $100 per hour session August only (usually $200 per hour) Wed 17/8 and 31/8/22. More information HERE
  • Sacred Feminine Art – Wednesday 31 August from 11am-12noon.
    learn how to draw a woman’s face in 5 minutes (one hour group session) paper and pencils provided $10 per person. It’s easy and fun! no experience needed. For all people of all ages…
    Bookings phone Heres to Strength
    Tickets HERE:
  • Please note that all Tantra exercises and massages at Here’s To Strength are non-sexual, energetic, connecting experiences.
  • Events are fully clothed. Any touch is with full consent

Products Available in Aldinga

  1. What Men and Women Really Want – 6 Tantric Love Secrets” paperback book $20
  2. Pampering Packs $20 and $50

So, book in now, for a massage, healing or Playshop with me, call me or book with Here’s to Strength

Ally Thomas 0419 038 310

also on Facebook, Linked in & Instagram

http://www.herestostrength.com

1A Old Coach Road Aldinga SA 5173

9am-9pm 7 days a week

phone (08) 7561 3500

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PURPOSE, LOVE AND SEX

Purpose

heart overflowing with LOVE

What if a man’s purpose is to learn how to pleasure a woman? To surrender to her seduction? To fully accept her love?

Is it a woman’s purpose to love a man enough to know how she wants to be loved, pleasured and sexed, and tells him, so that she can fully trust and surrender to his pleasuring, sex and love-making?

What is true love?

What is true sex?

Is it that that moment of bliss, euphoria? The elusive orgasm?

Or the ongoing desire, attraction and fulfilment of two people who want to connect their bodies, minds and spirits?

Is it riding the waves of pleasure, edging on that sweet spot of ecstasy?

Or that joyful feeling or seeing the pleasure of your lover?

And when you lose that spark, or that desire. How do you reignite it?

When you realize that your ‘sex switch’ is turned off, how do you turn it back on?

How to turn it back on

There are many ways. Here are some suggestions:

  • 1. Talk to your partner and reminisce about when you first met. What attracted you to each other? Discuss why you got married. What did you feel to want to commit to a lifetime together. Why did you start living together or being monogamous?
  • 2. Learn some tantric connection techniques, for example, eye gazing for three minutes. It works to connect strangers so why not someone you love? And practice them daily with your partner.
  • 3. Have a tantric couples session to learn more ways to connect and pleasure each other*
  • 4. Organize a Transformational Relationship Coaching session or program with Ally. These coaching sessions use NLP processes to release, emotions, clear blocks and reprogram your beliefs about yourself and your relationships.
  • 5. Have a tantric massage* for yourself – to get back in touch with your body and your sexual energy, your masculine or feminine energy. 

Love and pleasure are often indescribable and intangible. However, with Tantra, you can tune in to your body’s energy, get back in touch with your genitals, and learn new ways of loving yourself.

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Checklists

Men, want to learn how to:

☐ overcome Premature Ejaculation and Erection Dysfunction

☐ pleasure a woman

☐ have multiple orgasms  

☐ enhance your sexual performance  

☐ last longer and keep control  

☐ move your sexual energy?

Women, desire how to:

☐ Turn on your sexual energy   

☐ Empower your feminine energy

☐ Connect with your partner deeper, more easily 

☐ Unblock a chakra, or chakras   

☐ Trust        

☐ Let go and be open to love   

☐ Pleasure your partner more?

If you ticked any boxes, why not book with Ally NOW!

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Sacred Women’s Inner Self Weekend 2020

A journey of Self Inquiry and Tantric Experience 

The Farm for Wellbeing, 11 Willis Rd, Flaxley, Adelaide Hills
Saturday 25 July from 9.30am to Sunday 26 July 4pm
with Ally Thomas and Joan Carpenter

Saturday – “Explore Your Inner Self” with Joan Carpenter
Sunday – Passionate Sacred Feminine Playshop with Ally Thomas

Limited to 4 or 6 women per day.

Program

Saturday  25 July

“Explore Your Inner Self” with Joan Carpenter

9.30 arrive, 10.00 start

Includes:

  • Walk up to Grandmother Tree for meditation then stopping at Labyrinth & Sacred Women’s Site
  • Circle in Hearth Room
  • Lunch – allow time in nature
  • Labyrinth Contemplative Walk
  • Drum Journey
  • Dinner
  • Closing Circle
  • Fire/brazier Drumming

 Staying overnight is encouraged. 

Sunday 26 July 2020

Passionate Sacred Feminine Playshop with Ally Thomas

10am Start 

includes:

  • What is Passion? 
  • Delicious healthy vegan lunch 
  • 4 keys to Tantra, tantra exercises
  • meditation
  • What is Sacred Feminine?
  • feminine healing
  • Spiritual Energy Orgasm

4pm Closing circle.

What to bring

food for Lunch and Dinner on Saturday, warm bedding, warm clothes, toiletries, gum boots if you have them, breakfast on Sunday.

Pricing

For both workshops and overnight, including delicious healthy lunch on Sunday :
Early Bird $290 until 30/6/20, afterwards $330 each woman (includes accommodation and Sunday lunch) or $155 per day

Bookings and more details:

Humanitix

Sacred Women’s Inner Self Weekend 25-26 July 2020

Calling all women! 

Explore your Inner Self with Joan Carpenter and Ally Tantra

Would you like to connect with your Sacred Feminine Self? 

What about meeting your Wise & Wild Woman aspect?

To have time in Nature and to be nurtured! 

Join Ally and Joan in their shared offering for this magical weekend at The Farm for Wellbeing, Flaxley, Adelaide Hills at the 2 day Sacred Women’s Inner Self Weekend Retreat in July 2020

A Journey of Self Inquiry and Tantric Experience

Saturday – “Explore Your Inner Self” with Joan Carpenter

Joan is a Facilitator of “Wise Woman Within You”

Arrive 9.30 am, 10.00 start, end 8.30 PM after drumming and brazier- weather permitting.

A day/evening of Inner Exploration with meditation, journaling and Nature.

The day includes :

  • self inquiry with meditation and journaling 
  • time in Nature
  • group work in Circle
  • a contemplative Labyrinth walk
  • Drum Journey
  • Evening brazier fire and more drumming! (weather permitting)

Vegetarian soup for lunch.

BYO snacks.

Tea, coffee, milks provided.

Sacred Women’s shared meal for dinner – bring your favourite dish to contribute!

Stay overnight, be cozy with the wood fire, country kitchen and dormitory accommodation.

Small group of 4 women (or 6 if restrictions relax)

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Sunday – “Passionate Sacred Feminine Playshop” with Ally Thomas

Ally is a Tantra Teacher and Divine Feminine Goddess

We will explore:

  • Passion, Tantra, & Sacred Feminine energy (similar to the Sacred Feminine Playshop in July 2019)
  • Deepen your connection with your sensual energy (all exercises clothed-don’t worry!! 🙂
  • delicious healthy lunch on Sunday – Shepherdess Pie and Chocolate Mousse.
  • 4.00 pm Closing Circle.

Limited spaces for both workshops and overnight.

Booking and pre-payment essential.
Early Bird $290 until 30/6/20,
afterwards $330 each woman (includes accommodation and lunches)

Sacred Women’s Inner Self Weekend bookings on Humanitix: https://events.humanitix.com/sacred-women-s-inner-self-weekend-2020

peaceful feminine energy flowing through your chakras, with Ally Tantra

For more information about the Sacred Women’s Inner Self Weekend, contact Ally

MTM Newsletters 2019 – 2024

Here are the Newsletters I sent in 2019 and 2020. If you would like to subscribe and receive them regularly – HERE is the link.

January February 2019 Newsletter

Some of the contents of January-February Newsletter:

  • Tantric Energy Sexual Love Making
  • Ally’s Rajasthan Tour in India 2018 – 4 parts

March April 2019 MTM Newsletter

Read more in my March-April Newsletter

  • Cranio Sacral Therapy available
  • Ultimate Tantra Touch Evening for Couples
  • Sacred Feminine Playshop 21 July
  • Final chapters of my India trip
  • How many different types of orgasm are there?

May June 2019 Newsletter

NEWS is available HERE

  • Sacred Feminine Playshop 21 July
  • Are you a Princess Queen or Goddess?
  • August and September touring
MTM Newsletter 2019

July August MTM 2019 Newsletter

Contents = massage, CST, Spring…

September October 2019 Newsletter

Contents – Womens Massages, Cranial Sacral Treatment, Spring Specials, Breast Massage – Read it HERE

November December 2019 MTM Newsletter

Read about my Burlesque Playshops, A Taste of India Fundraiser and more HERE

January-February 2020 Newsletter

relationship passion map with ally of My Tantra Massae

My first newsletter for 2020: Passion Mapping Workshop in March, Sacred Feminine Playshop in May is HERE

March April May 2020 MTM Newsletter

Passion and Purpose Maps for Individuals, Couples, Relationships; Transformational Relationship Coaching, and new books available. Read it HERE

Playbook for Women about Sex ebook by Joani Blank

June – September 2020

Watch my latest video! Read about the Sacred Feminine Playshop, new Events, new Playbooks, my blogs and latest artwork. Read it HERE.

January 2022

AccuTouch, Adelaide news, Pricing, Pamper Packs, Shakti mats. Here it is.

May 2022

Newcastle in November, new photo, Aldinga, Tantra Training Academy, new Goddess Pamper Packs, my art for sale. My new book “Akwa and the Sea Goddess” to be published soon. Read more here.

September 2023

Brisbane in November, Tantra Training Academy, Art Inspiration, “Akwa and the Sea Goddess” book published – read HERE

November 2024

Newcastle & Gold Coast travel, August to Bali, May on a Cruise & Gatsby Night, my 3 books.

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Tantric Energy Sexual Love Making

Tantric energy sexual love making is easy to learn and ecstatic to do (and be done to!!)

Enjoy your reading and imagination of the experience of my Tantric energy sexual love making session with my partner!

Connecting – first touch

His first touch was electric. We just sat and stared at each other and held hands – feeling the strong current flow between us. Then he put his hand on my heart and I put my hand on his – that took the energy to a new level!

The he put his hands lightly on my shoulders and our foreheads touched – to explode my head in an orgasmic fountain of light and feeling. He gasped from the energetic kick…

When we’d recovered from that Kundalini rush, he looked deep into my eyes. 

My Orgasmic Pleasure

Can I lick your breasts?

“Yes. Please do.” And he gently licked and sucked my nipples so that I easily had half a dozen nipple-gasms, one after the other, riding on waves of pleasurable energy and lifting me out of my physical sensations.

“Can I touch your yoni?” He softly asked permission in such an honouring way. “Yes of course” I replied, already wet and juicy with anticipation.

His hand gently cupped between my legs and I held his lingam. We both vibrated with the uplifting connection he slowly guided me to lie down, never letting go. When I was lying on my back he did something and the energy changed. Then he played my body like the sensitive instrument it is – tuning me up and evoking a musical symphony to which my body danced in orgasmic ecstasy – rising and falling, moaning and crying with joy and bliss.

I lost all sense of time and space, but never lost that connection with him. The completeness, the oneness and the pleasure was beyond words.

I lost count of how many energy orgasms I had from his loving energising touch. His energy stimulated my whole body – tingling and vibrating all over. My body arched and quivered with the tantric energy. It bucked with the vibration of the kriyas, and at times I was aware of him vibrating at the same rate – flowing on waves of pleasure together.

I reached the blissful state of floating outside (or is it inside?) my body (or the universe), beyond words – just moaning and pleasure sounds expressing my ecstatic flowing experience.

Finally, after countless peaks of blissful energetic waves, he slowly brought me down (or back?) to a state where I could look at him and see him as slightly separate again. Then he stroked my body with feather tipped fingers – spreading the energy out to my fingers and toes, finger-combing my hair and gently stroking my face, around my forehead, eyes, check, down my nose to that sensitive bit underneath my nose, tracing around my lips. They pated, invitingly, and then he gently kissed my forehead cheeks and nose. I was expecting a lip kiss, but he nuzzled my neck and inhaled my hair, keeping me on the edge again. Licking and blowing on my neck like I loved, he teased me, blowing gently in my ear and whispering sweet words in a language I didn’t know, but could exactly understand by the spaces in between.

Then suddenly, he kissed my lips with a full Tantric kiss – drawing first my bottom lip in between his, then my top lip. I inhaled the nectar from his saliva, his skin, his masculine pheromone and it tipped me over the edge again. He gave me multiple kiss-gasms and we joined out infinite energy together again in a different configuration of happiness joy and ecstasy.

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Tantric energy sexual love making for her

Honouring Him

I undressed him, slowly and seductively. Sliding my hands over his skin, kissing here and licking there, while he shivered with anticipation. I kissed his feet, wiggling my bum for his visual pleasure, then slowly moved up his body like a snake, to suckle his nipples and lick his neck, kiss all over his face cheeks, nose and lips.

Sometimes I would kiss and lick his purple head, just to tease him and check his control. He would moan with pleasure…

He lay down on the massage table on his tummy, which was a bit awkward, as his erection got in the way. Then I would anoint his body with oil on my hands, gently stroking all over his back, down the outside of his legs and up the inside sensitive groin. His bum wiggled with delight, like a happy puppy! He let out a big sigh, releasing pent up tension, as my palms, fingers and nails tenderly touched each area and his awareness sunk into his body, his pleasure increased and he moaned with ecstasy.

My breasts brushed over his legs, bum, back as I stroked intimate parts of his perineum and balls from behind. He didn’t know which pleasure to concentrate on and surrendered to just receiving it all.

Then I stroked his arms and hands, twisting his fingers like I would twist his lingam later. His hands found my hanging breasts and gently stroked them, so I stopped playing with him and concentrated on receiving his loving touch.

Then I moved to the other side, stroking him with my breasts all down his body.

After oiling my breasts, I climbed on the massage table from behind him, stroking his legs, bum cheeks and back with my finger tips. Then I slid up his back and down again. He moaned again, put his hands around me and stroked my legs and bottom. I nibbled his neck and blew in his ear. He purred like a lion with the pleasure.

After a while I sat back and played with his perineum a bit more. He obligingly put his cute ass in the air and I had easy access to his lingam from behind. So I stroked it and teased it, while he just moaned more and more… I helped him stay on the edge for several peaks of pleasure.

To bring him down a bit, I stroked his arms and legs to help him be aware and distribute his sexual energy outwards. Then I got down and retrieved the big pillow.

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Tantric energy sexual love making for him

Edging Pleasure for Him

He turned over and I got a lovely view of his magnificent cock. While he got the view of my magnificent breasts.

As I oiled his legs and thighs and groin by hand, he murmured his appreciation – “I feel SO relaxed !”

Then I stroked my breasts up his legs to his sensitive bits – gently pushing his lingam in between them. He moaned again, and it playfully tapped me with his strong PC muscle action.

I nibbled, licked and sucked his nipples, blowing on them to stimulate him more and more. We kissed and exchanged breath and energy in an orgasmic dance (without a single tongue involved!) that united our circle of fire and water in a dancing spiral of rainbow energy, spinning around and through us.

Then he kissed my nipples and I had several loud nipple-gasms as he gently licked and sucked them to take me to the peak. I surrendered…

Then it was his turn again and I stroked his arms, licked his neck and all the other parts he loved me to play with while standing beside the table.

After much fun play, I oiled my hands again and sat between his legs. I started stroking his perineum and balls, slowly making my way, fingertip by fingertip, to his rock hard lingam. Again he was moaning with desire and anticipation, as I pleasured him with different strokes and touches. Spreading energy and sensation down his legs, up his chest, down his arms. Then back to his sex spot.

Our Tantric Energy Sexual Union

I lay on top of him, breasts cradling his lingam and stroking in between with my heart energy, sliding up and down with his breaths and mine joining together in sweet harmony. 

We slithered and wound ourselves together, joining in kisses and touches, hugs and hand strokes, teasing and tantalising each other, passionately making tantric sexual love on physical spiritual and energetic levels simultaneously until we were both satiated.

To be continued …..

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Tantric energy sexual love making by the sea

Your Tantric energy sexual love making

Couples can learn how to do this:

  • Buy and read my book “What Men and Women Really Want – 6 Tantric Love Secrets” or
  • See more information about Tantra Couples sessions HERE
  • Book a Tantra Couples session with Ally HERE.

I think the best part of making love is the first penetration. Done well, its SO memorable, that the anticipation keeps you coming back for more!

Why do bells ring in a Temple or church?

When I went to the Ranakpur Jain Temple in Rajasthan, India, in 2018, the Chief Priest told us that they ring their bells every day before their rituals.

I love the sound of bells, and often ring mine before or after a Tantra session, as part of my opening and closing rituals.

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Here are some of the reasons why a bell is rung in a temple:

Ringing bell in Jain temples

  • To wake you up
  • For left and right brain harmony
  • To balance your chakras
  • De-stressing
  • To get rid of insects
  • To drown out other noise
  • It creates higher vibrations in your body
  • Cleanses mind of external distractions
  • and can make the heavenly beings aware of your entrance to temple.

Church bells are rung to

  • Advise people to come to the service of worship
  • Call the community together
  • Give alarm or notice of invasion
  • Announce time of day
  • Drive out demons and bad spirits.

Bells chime for ceremonies – weddings, funerals or other announcements.
Altar bells are also rung at different times in the service to signify special events.

I have always loved the sounds of bells – small tinkling sounds, as on a bicycle, on a shop door, a house bell (ding dong!), and the bigger, deeper temple bells and the deep gongs of Tibetan Japanese and Buddhist and other Asian countries.

Church bells and the musical carillons still ring in some places – eg Hobart in Tasmania and Perth in Western Australia.

Some people can remember the old school bell which called them to study! Ships also used bells for communication since ancient times..

Musical Bells

Many songs and music, particularly spiritual music from both Eastern and Western civilisations, have bells ringing, gongs sounding, to create a sense of peace and tranquility. Karunesh is a musician who uses a lot of bells and gongs in his music. Tubular bells are another type of musical genius.

All these resonate with your energy, giving some or all of the effects above. They stimulate your energy or vibration, and can calm your mind, energise your body and increase your awareness for peace.

Sounds of Bells

The sound of a bell is a sacred sound, which can awaken your spirit or soul, balance your chakras and uplift your energy and vibration.

DING

DONG

Why not add the chime of a bell to your meditation ritual or practice?
Here is a Womens blessing and chant from the Chief Priest at Ranakpur Jain Temple.
More about my Indian Tour in 2018 HERE.

Temple bell in Varanasi, India, by Ally Tantra
temple bell in Varanasi, India