What if a man’s purpose is to learn how to pleasure a woman? To surrender to her seduction? To fully accept her love?
Is it a woman’s purpose to love a man enough to know how she wants to be loved, pleasured and sexed, and tells him, so that she can fully trust and surrender to his pleasuring, sex and love-making?
What is true love?
What is true sex?
Is it that that moment of bliss, euphoria? The elusive orgasm?
Or the ongoing desire, attraction and fulfilment of two people who want to connect their bodies, minds and spirits?
Is it riding the waves of pleasure, edging on that sweet spot of ecstasy?
Or that joyful feeling or seeing the pleasure of your lover?
And when you lose that spark, or that desire. How do you reignite it?
When you realize that your ‘sex switch’ is turned off, how do you turn it back on?
How to turn it back on
There are many ways. Here are some suggestions:
1. Talk to your partner and reminisce about when you first met. What attracted you to each other? Discuss why you got married. What did you feel to want to commit to a lifetime together. Why did you start living together or being monogamous?
2. Learn some tantric connection techniques, for example, eye gazing for three minutes. It works to connect strangers so why not someone you love? And practice them daily with your partner.
3. Have a tantric couples session to learn more ways to connect and pleasure each other*
4. Organize a Transformational Relationship Coaching session or program with Ally. These coaching sessions use NLP processes to release, emotions, clear blocks and reprogram your beliefs about yourself and your relationships.
5. Have a tantric massage* for yourself – to get back in touch with your body and your sexual energy, your masculine or feminine energy.
Love and pleasure are often indescribable and intangible. However, with Tantra, you can tune in to your body’s energy, get back in touch with your genitals, and learn new ways of loving yourself.
Checklists
Men, want to learn how to:
☐ overcome Premature Ejaculation and Erection Dysfunction
☐ pleasure a woman
☐ have multiple orgasms
☐ enhance your sexual performance
☐ last longer and keep control
☐ move your sexual energy?
Women, desire how to:
☐ Turn on your sexual energy
☐ Empower your feminine energy
☐ Connect with your partner deeper, more easily
☐ Unblock a chakra, or chakras
☐ Trust
☐ Let go and be open to love
☐ Pleasure your partner more?
If you ticked any boxes, why not book with Ally NOW!
Tantric energy sexual love making is easy to learn and ecstatic to do (and be done to!!)
Enjoy your reading and imagination of the experience of my Tantric energy sexual love making session with my partner!
Connecting – first touch
His first touch was electric. We just sat and stared at each other and held hands – feeling the strong current flow between us. Then he put his hand on my heart and I put my hand on his – that took the energy to a new level!
The he put his hands lightly on my shoulders and our foreheads touched – to explode my head in an orgasmic fountain of light and feeling. He gasped from the energetic kick…
When we’d recovered from that Kundalini rush, he looked deep into my eyes.
My Orgasmic Pleasure
Can I lick your breasts?
“Yes. Please do.” And he gently licked and sucked my nipples so that I easily had half a dozen nipple-gasms, one after the other, riding on waves of pleasurable energy and lifting me out of my physical sensations.
“Can I touch your yoni?” He softly asked permission in such an honouring way. “Yes of course” I replied, already wet and juicy with anticipation.
His hand gently cupped between my legs and I held his lingam. We both vibrated with the uplifting connection he slowly guided me to lie down, never letting go. When I was lying on my back he did something and the energy changed. Then he played my body like the sensitive instrument it is – tuning me up and evoking a musical symphony to which my body danced in orgasmic ecstasy – rising and falling, moaning and crying with joy and bliss.
I lost all sense of time and space, but never lost that connection with him. The completeness, the oneness and the pleasure was beyond words.
I lost count of how many energy orgasms I had from his loving energising touch. His energy stimulated my whole body – tingling and vibrating all over. My body arched and quivered with the tantric energy. It bucked with the vibration of the kriyas, and at times I was aware of him vibrating at the same rate – flowing on waves of pleasure together.
I reached the blissful state of floating outside (or is it inside?) my body (or the universe), beyond words – just moaning and pleasure sounds expressing my ecstatic flowing experience.
Finally, after countless peaks of blissful energetic waves, he slowly brought me down (or back?) to a state where I could look at him and see him as slightly separate again. Then he stroked my body with feather tipped fingers – spreading the energy out to my fingers and toes, finger-combing my hair and gently stroking my face, around my forehead, eyes, check, down my nose to that sensitive bit underneath my nose, tracing around my lips. They pated, invitingly, and then he gently kissed my forehead cheeks and nose. I was expecting a lip kiss, but he nuzzled my neck and inhaled my hair, keeping me on the edge again. Licking and blowing on my neck like I loved, he teased me, blowing gently in my ear and whispering sweet words in a language I didn’t know, but could exactly understand by the spaces in between.
Then suddenly, he kissed my lips with a full Tantric kiss – drawing first my bottom lip in between his, then my top lip. I inhaled the nectar from his saliva, his skin, his masculine pheromone and it tipped me over the edge again. He gave me multiple kiss-gasms and we joined out infinite energy together again in a different configuration of happiness joy and ecstasy.
Tantric energy sexual love making for her
Honouring Him
I undressed him, slowly and seductively. Sliding my hands over his skin, kissing here and licking there, while he shivered with anticipation. I kissed his feet, wiggling my bum for his visual pleasure, then slowly moved up his body like a snake, to suckle his nipples and lick his neck, kiss all over his face cheeks, nose and lips.
Sometimes I would kiss and lick his purple head, just to tease him and check his control. He would moan with pleasure…
He lay down on the massage table on his tummy, which was a bit awkward, as his erection got in the way. Then I would anoint his body with oil on my hands, gently stroking all over his back, down the outside of his legs and up the inside sensitive groin. His bum wiggled with delight, like a happy puppy! He let out a big sigh, releasing pent up tension, as my palms, fingers and nails tenderly touched each area and his awareness sunk into his body, his pleasure increased and he moaned with ecstasy.
My breasts brushed over his legs, bum, back as I stroked intimate parts of his perineum and balls from behind. He didn’t know which pleasure to concentrate on and surrendered to just receiving it all.
Then I stroked his arms and hands, twisting his fingers like I would twist his lingam later. His hands found my hanging breasts and gently stroked them, so I stopped playing with him and concentrated on receiving his loving touch.
Then I moved to the other side, stroking him with my breasts all down his body.
After oiling my breasts, I climbed on the massage table from behind him, stroking his legs, bum cheeks and back with my finger tips. Then I slid up his back and down again. He moaned again, put his hands around me and stroked my legs and bottom. I nibbled his neck and blew in his ear. He purred like a lion with the pleasure.
After a while I sat back and played with his perineum a bit more. He obligingly put his cute ass in the air and I had easy access to his lingam from behind. So I stroked it and teased it, while he just moaned more and more… I helped him stay on the edge for several peaks of pleasure.
To bring him down a bit, I stroked his arms and legs to help him be aware and distribute his sexual energy outwards. Then I got down and retrieved the big pillow.
Tantric energy sexual love making for him
Edging Pleasure for Him
He turned over and I got a lovely view of his magnificent cock. While he got the view of my magnificent breasts.
As I oiled his legs and thighs and groin by hand, he murmured his appreciation – “I feel SO relaxed !”
Then I stroked my breasts up his legs to his sensitive bits – gently pushing his lingam in between them. He moaned again, and it playfully tapped me with his strong PC muscle action.
I nibbled, licked and sucked his nipples, blowing on them to stimulate him more and more. We kissed and exchanged breath and energy in an orgasmic dance (without a single tongue involved!) that united our circle of fire and water in a dancing spiral of rainbow energy, spinning around and through us.
Then he kissed my nipples and I had several loud nipple-gasms as he gently licked and sucked them to take me to the peak. I surrendered…
Then it was his turn again and I stroked his arms, licked his neck and all the other parts he loved me to play with while standing beside the table.
After much fun play, I oiled my hands again and sat between his legs. I started stroking his perineum and balls, slowly making my way, fingertip by fingertip, to his rock hard lingam. Again he was moaning with desire and anticipation, as I pleasured him with different strokes and touches. Spreading energy and sensation down his legs, up his chest, down his arms. Then back to his sex spot.
Our Tantric Energy Sexual Union
I lay on top of him, breasts cradling his lingam and stroking in between with my heart energy, sliding up and down with his breaths and mine joining together in sweet harmony.
We slithered and wound ourselves together, joining in kisses and touches, hugs and hand strokes, teasing and tantalising each other, passionately making tantric sexual love on physical spiritual and energetic levels simultaneously until we were both satiated.
To be continued …..
Tantric energy sexual love making by the sea
Your Tantric energy sexual love making
Couples can learn how to do this:
Buy and read my book “What Men and Women Really Want – 6 Tantric Love Secrets” or
See more information about Tantra Couples sessions HERE
MEN: Do you have Premature Ejaculation? Do you suffer from erection dysfunction? Have you had a prostate operation? Are you dis-satisfied with your sex life? Do you have a lot of stress and tension in your work and life and don’t know how to get relief? Lack of sleep or broken sleep? Pain, lack of pleasure for you and your partner? Frustration? Lack of satisfaction for you and your lover? Performance anxiety?
What does this cost you in your life? Your relationship, happiness, joy, relaxation, control, pleasure, orgasms, performance…
Cost to do something?
Have you tried drugs, viagra, hormones, pumps, injections? Are you sick of debilitating side effects? Painful frustrating experiences? Tried to focus on something else? Been castigated for your efforts? Does it work for you?
Ancient Tantra Technique is easy to learn
A simple 3 step exercise takes about an hour for you to learn what to do, you practise doing it, and get an idea of how it works. For YOU! Very easy! The side effects are that you will feel relaxed and energised.
Then you practise – by yourself (it’s fun) until you feel competent. Then surprise your lover!!
She will be happy and grateful. You will be satisfied and relaxed. Confident in your masculinity and control of your sexuality.
Possible Benefits
easy to learn and practice!
it works!
stronger erections
release tension
control ejaculation
multiple orgasms before or after ejaculation
increase masculinity and confidence
de-stress
full body orgasm
relaxation
sleep better.
How much does a Tantra Massage cost for Men?
It costs less than Viagra. It’s more healthy than drugs. Ad it works better than mental control.
For men, a one hour one-one discrete private confidential Tantra Massage session to heal any of these issues, is $250. Other sessions are available see Mens page
Available in Adelaide, Melbourne, Newcastle, Hobart Brisbane, Perth, Canberra, Launceston, Sydney – see my Schedule page. Book now HERE
How much does a Tantra Massage cost for Women?
For women with sexual abuse issues, who have been hurt either mentally, physically or emotionally, you can also have a confidential consultation and Tantra session to learn how to relax, tune into and enjoy your feminine energy, and how to have a (female) orgasm – or a pampering sensual soft massage. See Women’s page for more information.
Tried and tested by experienced Tantra Teacher
Tantric exercises are originally from ancient India (Tantra) and China (Taoism), have been controlled, hidden or lost for many years, and are now available to all.
Ally has studied and practiced Tantra for over 20 years. She has taught Tantra techniques experientially since 2009 to thousands of men of all ages, occupations and health in Australia and New Zealand.
Any testimonials?
Ally has received many grateful testimonials from men who have learnt this technique and expressed how happy they and their wives, lovers and girlfriends as a result.
Hi Ally,I just want to let you know I had a very deep sleep last night, which doesn’t happen very often, and I’m sure yesterday’s wonderful, exhilarating session with you was the reason. Thanks again for a new experience. I will be visiting you again. K
You have helped me bring back my confidence in myself I will practice control.
J Adelaide
I was amazed at how long I was able to control my ejaculation using the tantra techniques. B Melbourne
Thank you for removing my block for my sexuality. i feel the power of my masculinity without the bravado! J Perth
I came to see you in desperation yet in one visit you successfully convinced me that there was nothing wrong with me. You have marvellous hands! Thank you for your ministrations! D Brisbane
I recommend Ally to make you feel wonderful. I came in as a 60 year old and left as a 17 year old! B Brisbane.
Tantric Massage – I love playing with people’s bodies
As a Tantric massage therapist I see many bodies. They are all different, and yet they are all the same. And I get permission to play with them – to tease and please, to stroke and tickle, gently and firmly.
Always I touch with love and respect – with my intention of healing and my powerful Reiki and feminine energy flowing through.
After a short chat in which the client (you) often says they are nervous or worried; I assure you that you are “just going to have a relaxing massage”. And that the anxious feeling is usually one of two things. It can be an issue that has come up to be released, and Now is the time. Or it could be the fear of the unknown – because you really don’t know what will happen. So if you think about how you want to feel when you leave, relaxed and happy after releasing the tension of life, it helps you to settle.
Also I talk about Conscious Breathing and we take a couple of deep, conscious breaths. That helps everyone to relax more.
When you are comfortable lying face downwards on my soft massage table, listening to relaxing background music, with gentle candlelight and sweet smelling air, your Tantra Pleasure Experience is about to begin.
I start with a dedication to the Goddess to bring healing energy from the Love Grid, through me to help you relax, release and surrender to receive pleasure. So you can de-stress and let go of all your tension and out of your head!
We do some breathwork together which helps you relax more, especially during your Sensual Tantric Massage. Then I start stroking your body all over with gentle loving fingers, hands, arms. When you sigh, moan and groan with pleasure, I give you more! It’s great to have feedback. I love your expressions of pleasure. It inspires me to explore more. So often I will ask you: Do you like this? Do you like soft and gentle strokes? Or firm pressure? Does it tickle? Or is it sensual and relaxing?
Sometimes I use feathers to tickle you, or scratchy things to stimulate you or firm pressure in different areas of your body.
Your head and hair can be caressed and stroked or gently pulled for interesting effects. All in the name of playful pleasure…
Your back and bottom are more sensitive than you think. Your arms and hands get healing strokes too, with soothing light massage oil. It gives me great pleasure to explore your body’s sensitivities, and to help moisturise and relax your hands, arms and legs. If you want something different – just let me know!
When you have turned over, I have a whole new playground opening up! (Are you still aware of your breathing? And your energy in your Whole Body?)
I will probably tease you by starting with your legs or tummy – tingling or tickling or massaging those sensitive areas. And depending on your level of relaxation at that point I will ask you for more feedback.
Stroking your legs, body and arms in long or short strokes, I love to give you relaxing pleasure from toes to fingers… My enjoyment is doubled by your expression of your happiness – a release of breath, a sigh, and mmmmmm helps me enjoy it more!
Sometimes there’s a guided meditation or instructions. I sometimes take you on a journey through your chakras (or energy centres). There are seven chakras and they are similar to the colours of the rainbow. This enhances your energy flow, especially if you can visualise or “feel” the colours, and it gives you a different experience in your sensual Tantric massage.
Towards the end of your Tantric massage, which may or may not include multiple orgasms, ecstasy, full body orgasm, joy and bliss and general relaxation, you could feel like you are “coming back” from your journey.
I can help you come back down (often with a bit of resistance “I don’t want to come back!”) and you can float for a while longer in your euphoric state.
When you are back – VERY relaxed and also energised, sometimes tingling and energised, then you can have a quick shower or enjoy the feeling of water-dispersible oil moisturising your skin and body for the rest of your day.
Afterwards, people often say they feel like they could go to sleep, as they are SO relaxed. However it’s similar to the state you are in when you wake up in the morning and are relaxed, but it’s a conscious state.
Your sleep that night will be peaceful… Some people tell me they are still tingling two days later!!
And of course you can come back and have another Tantra Pleasure Experience, Tantric massage or Sensual Massage with me again…
For your Tantric Pleasure
Ally
As one blissful person described it: “You do so many things. Have done so many things, it seems. I think you speak with far more than your hands! Perhaps you heal and fulfill others with deep secrets. Your body and all its sensuality are mere sails harnessing the winds of a sweet erotic release; it is the oceans you take others to that eventually floods souls and banishes time.”
Love is an expression of the willingness to create space in which something is allowed to change – by Harry Palmer, (creator of Avatar personal development program)
What does a Tantric Sex Coach do? First of all, what is Tantra? What is Tantric Sex? Why do you need a Coach?
Everyone loves sex, but how do we learn about it? if you are lucky you learn from an older partner, or a more experienced lover. Most people learn from their peers, as teenagers, using the “trial and error” method.
Some people want to improve their sex life. Many men want to learn control so they can last longer and pleasure their lover longer.
A lot of women don’t know how to “turn themselves on” sexually – how to tune in to their feminine sexual energy or how to really enjoy making love with their partner.
Tantra
Tantra comes from ancient India. Taoist teachings from ancient China are similar to Tantra. The word Tantra means to expand and weave. That’s what you learn to do – expand your sexual energy and weave it around your body and between you and your partner.
Tantric Sex
Tantric Sex is that close connection you have that can lead to out-of-body ecstatic orgasmic sex and pleasure that seems to last for ever. It can take you to other places, other spaces, and an expanded sense of beingness. Many people have tried to explain it, but the experience is beyond words, beyond description. You know that you have been “out there” or “in there” or “away somewhere” because you feel yourself “coming back”!
How do you create that connection? How can you do that, step by step, whenever you want? Tantric techniques are the answer. Breathing, moving, and consciously being present with your self and your partner, are some of the keys.
Tantric Sex Coach
A Tantric Sex Coach guides and teaches you (and your partner) Tantric exercises so that you can get to those heights. Men can learn to control their orgasm and ejaculation so they can have multiple orgasms. Women can learn how to get in touch with their sexual energy and enhance it to relax and enjoy more pleasure making love.
Coaching in intimacy and sexuality is more than teaching you how to have mind-blowing sex! It’s more about Sex Ed – education about your sex organs, how your sexual energy works, and about what YOU like best. It’s about loving yourself, self pleasuring, learning new strokes for your partner, and much more…
It’s breathing together to create closer intimacy and connection. Tantra can be very healing on many levels.
So what are you waiting for? Book your session with Ally, Tantric Sex Coach, today to enhance your sex life, ignite your passion and have more joy and blissful pleasure.
I teach people about Tantra, sacred feminine and intimacy, and often get asked these questions:
What is the difference between orgasm and ejaculation? What are the differences between male and female orgasm? What are the different types of orgasm? How do I tune into my sexual energy and turn it on? How do I enhance my feminine essence? How do I have an orgasm?
We don’t learn about this at school, often because we don’t know the questions to ask. And often it’s because we don’t know WHO to ask! Parents, Teachers, peers or elders? Who knows? Safety, confidentiality and trust are important in this personal, intimate subject.
As an Intimacy Coach and Tantra Massage Teacher and Trainer, I provide one-one sessions, couples sessions, Playshops, massage sessions, coaching and counselling programs and training for men women and couples in Tantra to help answer many of your questions.
Playshops
CALLING ALL WOMEN!
Explore your Sacred Feminine Energy in two Sensuality Love and Intimacy Evenings in Hobart in 2017. Sacred Feminine Evenings are to educate and empower women about sacred sexuality, and help heal shame, guilt and fear with connection, communion and love.
Do you want to tune into your Sacred Feminine Energy?
Empower your spiritual energy? Open your heart to love and radiance
To learn more about spiritual sacred energy and how to enhance it more?
Use Tantric breathwork for grounding, moving your energy, unblock your chakras to heal and energize
Connect with your spiritual guides and angels
Reconnect magic, passion, feel deep love and powerful female energy
Use meditation, dance, movement and Tantric techniques to tune into your unique divine energy
Includes a healthy light supper, meditation, dance, movement and fun easy spiritual exercises and techniques
Sacred Feminine Playshops 2017 dates
Tuesday 10 January in Hobart, Saturday 22 April – Bruny Island.
from 7pm-9pm – #1 Introduction to Tantra. $25 each. Bring a friend. Book HERE
Thursday 12 January in Hobart, Thursday 27 April in Hobart
from 7-10pm – #2 Spiritual Energy Orgasm or Firebreath Orgasm. Learn how to have an orgasm without touching yourself. For the brave and sensual woman. Maximum 10 ladies. Wear comfy trousers. $30 each. Book HERE
January special – one evening $25 or $30 each, 2 evenings $50.
Tantra massage and Tantra Sessions for Women
Women’s Sensual Massage, Yoni massage, Tantra Pleasure Experience and Tantra Massage are more about sensuality and tuning into your feminine essence.
Tantra Pleasure Experience is like a massage – very gentle, very relaxing and also energising, with guided meditation, breathing and Tantra techniques. Women, learn how to enhance your feminine energy and how to move it around your body to relax and enjoy more pleasure. You can clear blocks from past abuse, fears, hurts and other pains that stop you from enjoying your life fully, and balance your chakras so that your energy flows smoothly.
Choose from Sensual Massage (relaxing, pampering massage), Tantra Massage (can include yoni massage), or a Chakra Balancing Massage. There is more information HERE.
ESSENCE Tantra Program for Women
The ESSENCE Tantra Program covers three sessions to explore, release and heal one relationship or sexual issue in your life. More details HERE
Tantra Training for Women
Learn more about Tantra so you can teach others about this fascinating subject. More details HERE
On 16-18 November 2016, for the first time, I paid a visit Hobart to teach people about Tantra and give Tantra Pleasure Experience to men women and couples. Tantra Pleasure Experience is like a massage – very relaxing and energising. I also teach men how to control your sexual energy. Women can learn how to tune into your feminine energy. Education about how to move your energy around your body for more pleasure,
As I have written about in my ebook “What Women Really Want – 6 Tantric Sex Techniques for Men and Couples” (available from Amazon.com.au), there are many benefits to using Tantra techniques. Some include:
teasing for sensuality
fun with foreplay
connecting with breath for more intimacy
being present in the moment
how to turn your lover on with sensual touch and stroking
creating rapport with your lover even when one of you doesn’t feel like it
enhancing your feeling of love with your partner spouse or lover
and more.
My Tantra sessions for couples include guided visualisations and journeys through your chakras, using breath to control your energy and body, how to pleasure a woman so she is begging you for more, a journey through your senses, how to use yabyum and other Tantric techniques.
Book for Hobart Tantra Massage
Tantra massage for MenWomen and Couples is available. For more information follow the links. So book your one hour, 90 minute or 2 hour Tantra Pleasure Experience, Tantra massage, Sensual massage or Tantra session now to experience Tantra or learn more about this fascinating subject HERE while Ally is in Hobart: November 16, 17 and 18, 2016 and 9-13 January 2017.
Enjoy the pleasure of a Sacred Tantra Lingam massage to activate your sacred masculine energy – a full body sensual and erotic massage. The Sacred Grove Oil feels sublime on your body. it fortifies body and soul with liquid armour. The infusion incorporates the Sacred Healing energies, and combined with gentle relaxing and energising massage strokes can be an extraordinary experience. includes a bottle of Sacred Grove Oil from the Scented Emu Bush to take home and use for yourself or your lover
Ladies – pamper and relax with a healing Sacred Tantra Yoni* massage. You can activate and enhance your beautiful feminine energy, and surrender to the pleasure. Massage includes a bottle of healing Sacred Grove Oil from the Scented Emu Bush to give your lover a sensual massage or use yourself all over your body …
Sacred Grove specialises in the preservation and promotion of traditional indigenous knowledge, through its exciting range of products that highlight the “Scented Emu Bush” and grown according to certified Organic farming principles.
The Scented Emu Bush (Eremophilaalternifolia) is a plant of mystical and sacred significance to the indigenous Aboriginal people who have lived in the central desert regions of Australia for eons and used it for healing as part of their bush medicine.
from Wikipedia: “It is a variable shrub, both with respect to its leaves and flower colour. Aboriginal Australians used the leaves to treat ailments such as colds and skin infections and pharmacological testing has shown that the leaves contain compounds that affect cardiac activity. An indigenous name for the plant, Tarrtjan translated as Goldfields, a region in the West where it is found. Medicine: Parts of this plant have been used as a traditional medicine. A small quantity was used in a preparation for treating colds and inflammation of the throat, an infusion of the leaves as a soporific, and other parts combined as a topical treatment. Compounds such as verbascoside present in the leaves of this species have been shown to have both antibacterial properties and the ability to dilate blood vessels.[14]“
Welcome to 2016! The past few months have been an incredible time of transformation not only on a personal level, but also in my business.
You may have noticed that the My Tantra Massage website looks different. Stay tuned – the look and feel will continue to evolve in the next few months.
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