Love, Eroticism & Relationship

What is self love?

Self love is being in heart space.

How do I get out of head space – thoughts, feelings, chatter, busy busy? And relax into my heart and love my self?energy_heart_sm

Here are 6 ways:

  1. Awareness
    Increase your awareness of your body – tense your hands, feel the tension – then relax them and feel the release. Screw up your face and hold your breath, then relax and smile. Stretch out one leg and circle your foot, be aware of your foot moving; then stretch the other leg out and circle the other foot, awareness in your toes. Rub your hand on your tummy if you are sitting down, on your buttock or thigh if you are standing, feeling from the inside, being aware of the sensations only. Be aware of loving your body’s movement and stillness. Send gratitude and love to your body for the way it automatically responds to your thoughts.
  2. Breath
    Sit quietly, placing one hand on your heart and the other on your belly. Breathe out into your belly, feel it rise and fall. Be aware of your breath going in and out through your mouth and nose. Take 20 breaths, imagining your breath coming in through your belly and circulating up to your heart – loving your self.
  3. Chanting meditation
    Use Indian mantras or your favourite TV jingle, or a favourite song or poem. Out loud is best. Also humming works, or whispering. When you can hear it, the sound resonates.
    When you are in a group eg saying AUM or singing, the sound amplifies, and the energy is stronger.
    When you meditate on the repetitive sound, it can take you away from your thoughts and worries, and bring you into the present moment, ready to love your self.
  4. Dancing and movement
    Dancing is a good way to love your self. When you dance you can be lost in the moment. Free flow dancing is great exercise and a good way to release tension and relax your whole body. Movement, even swaying as you are sitting, can release tension so that you can relax, enjoy the moment and love your self.
  5. Massage and stroking
    I love touch, massage and stroking, so my biased opinion is also for you to stroke your self lovingly. Caress your face, your hair, your head, as if you were caressing your lover. You are! Then extend the touch to your arms and shoulders, stroke down your torso, your body, breasts, legs toes and feet. You can use soft fabrics like velvet, or find a feather to stroke yourself with for a different feeling. Massage that love in!
  6. Voyeur
    If you want to really stretch loving your self and your physical body – stand in front of a full length mirror and look at yourself – lovingly. Praise all the parts of your body you normally criticise. Stroke, massage, preen, and love that wonderful sexy person in the mirror! Watch what happens to your face and how you feel about your self afterwards…

Meditation is another way to get in touch with your self and love your self.

  • Use a candle to look at – focus on the flame and watch your thoughts go by – coming back to the contemplation of the candle.
  • Use the smell of incense to waft you away into a meditative reverie.
  • Read a book and love your self to be lost in the world of your imagination.
  • Slowly touch and stroke your body for self pleasure, whispering positive loving words of love eg
    • I love my legs which carry me through life
    • I appreciate my hands to feel my body
    • I love my skin, its softness and hardness and hairiness
    • I enjoy my genitals being gently stroked and held
    • I love my eyes to see sunsets sunrises and people I love
    • I love my self
    • I love me, I do.

If you would like to love your self more, pamper your self, and combine 3 of the 6 ways above, contact me for a Tantra Massage! Bookings HERE and my Schedule HERE.

Ally Thomas 2016

WANTED: Women to teach Tantra

Wanted: Women to train as Tantra Teachers

All over Australia

Especially Canberra, Cairns, Darwin, Tasmania, Townsville

Do you believe you have healing hands? Do you love touch, stroking and massage?
Want to use your Reiki energy to help men and women heal themselves? Are you a Lightworker?

Teach and educate men

–       how to control their ejaculation and last longer

–       how to pleasure women better

–       how to improve communication when making love

–       how to take making love and sexuality to a higher level of Joy and Bliss for both Men and Women

Do you have a massage table?

Do you want to work from home or a private place?

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Ally’s Practitioner Training has 5 Modules

The first one is how to give the Tantra Pleasure Experience to Men. Second one is for Womens Sensual and Yoni Massage, Third is Advanced Tantra sessions, 4th is training for Couples sessions, 5th is how to run your tantra massage business successfully. Mine has been running successfully for over 8 years. I have taught lots of people about Tantra and Sacred Sexuality all over Australia and New Zealand, and trained 10 people in some or all of these modules.

Each module is approximately 10 hours and can be done over 2 or 3 days, depending on your availability.  You will also receive a Women’s Tantra Massage/Initiation as part of your Training.

The training is one-one, and you need to book 3-4 models for training and practice.

The pre-requisites are:

*      a passion and desire to help and heal people, few judgements about people, lots of compassion and unconditional love to give

*      Completion of Application Form and return by email ASAP, and a phone conversation (approx 30 minutes)

*      You need to have your own portable massage table.

*      Some sexy clothing that make you feel like a goddess.

*      Payment of deposit of $500 to confirm your intention to do the Training. You can pay your deposit by direct deposit, or VISA or MasterCard. (NB with credit card it is there is a 3% transaction fee.)

So if you are interested in investing in your own business, learning more to enhance your existing business, or purely for personal use, contact Ally to arrange your training sessions.

More details see Tantra Training Academy

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Bliss Balls – new colours

Bliss Balls – what are they?

Bliss Balls are furry, fluffy pleasuring mittens for more pleasure for your partner or your Self…
Run them over her body and she will shiver with delight, relaxing under the soft touch of sensual fur.

Designed for the sensual woman and her lover who wants to please her more, help her relax.

A pampering gift for a sensual woman to spoil herself…

One size fits all hands

Colours available by request – Hot Pink*, Hot Purple, Soft Mauve*, Racy Red*, Orgasmic Orange, pure white*, Emerald green, Lime Green, Royal Red,  Purple swirl

$20 each, 2 for $30

New 2018 colours shown below

furry Bliss Ball for Tantra Massage for pleasuring women
*furry Bliss Ball for Tantra Massage for pleasuring women (and men)

**Brown Furry and Black Furry are much thicker fur and $29 each or 2 for $50

Buy her one or 2 Bliss Balls for a unique pleasuring gift – for Christmas, Birthday, Anniversary, Mothers Day, or just for no particular reason at all – just because you Love Her!

SPECIAL For Mothers Day in May – powder pink 2 for $10 – limited numbers available!

Order HERE now before her favourite colour sells out!

Or book HERE for a pampering pleasuring massage to try them out

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Your Pleasure

What is your pleasure?

your pleasure Tantric massage with Ally

Your Pleasure is relaxing, enjoying, doing nothing, receiving. Pleasure is surrendering to being pleasured. In giving pleasure you often receive it as well.

What gives you pleasure? Giving gifts, giving compliments, receiving touch, receiving compliments, hearing someone say “I love you”? Doing spontaneous special things for your spouse, for your friend, with your lover, to your partner? Receiving a special present of time or a quality item?

Is it appreciating a sunset or a babies smile or child’s first steps? Smelling fresh mown grass or hay? Eating a beautiful meal of a smorgasbord of tastes and colours? Or hearing a special song that makes you feel romantic or loved?

Do you enjoy reading a book, meditating, or learning something new? Check out my book “What Women Really Want – 6 Tantric Sex Techniques for Men and Couples” HERE

A child’s pleasure is delight, wonder of a ladybird or a new toy – which can be a cardboard box!
A teenager’s pleasure could be a night of passionate sex!
An adult’s pleasure could be the delicious taste of a delicate wine, or a breath of fresh air or the stars at night…

Your pleasure can be the absence of pain or the edge or pain – it’s different things to different people…

A smile expresses pleasure. If you add sound of laughter it builds and spreads more, from one person to another. A baby’s giggle, a child’s laugh, and adults chuckle make us smile or laugh too Laughter is infectious, bubbling up and transferring from you to me…

Pleasure turns sadness into happiness, joy into bliss,
giggles into laughter and ennui into love.

What is your greatest pleasure?

You can experience a Tantra Pleasure Experience – a taste of Tantra with Ally today, this week. More details HERE, make a Booking, call on 0419 038 310 if you are in Adelaide EMAIL if you are in Australia, New Zealand or any country in the world…

Your pleasure is medicine and love has the power to heal with tantra massage
Pleasure is medicine and love has the power to heal. Devi Ward

Shakti’s Cave

Shakti’s Cave

written by Shiva at Mt Arunachala in India

I slowly climb the path upwards and with each step upwards by step inwards. There are many caves in the holy mountain, my mother, but there is only one that is the cave I desire tonight: the Cave of Shakti’s fire.

I arrive at the entrance of the cave, my destination. I remember that it is not about the destination but the journey. Above the cave’s entrance is a silver crescent moon, as I climb the final step twilight falls, Venus rises above the horizon, and the light of the full moon illuminates every rock and stone.

From within the cave shines a golden light, beckoning, inviting me to enter within. A sweet fragrance, divinity itself, perfumes the early night air, filling my being with welcoming delight.

***

Now I become a true Shiva self, to enter the temple cave as my realised God self. I bow down and enter within. Before me burns a fire and behind the fire on the other side stands the goddess Shakti, smiling, welcoming me with open hands and heart.

Before me appears a tiger skin on the floor. Shakti smiles and beckons me to sit down upon the skin. First I bow down, my forehead touching the floor, I thank her for welcoming me into the temple of my sacred sexual self.

My breathing is relaxed, deeply inhaling the fragrance of the goddess: frangipani, Jasmine, rose, sandalwood and musk. With each inhalation I become more and more intoxicated and yet my energy becomes more awake, alert, refreshed.

***

Shakti now holds a bell, she strikes it 3 times and each pure note resonates throughout my entire being. She disappears… I close my eyes, falling, falling deeply back into the oceanic depths of awareness that transcends all time and space.

Appearing to my left standing in the earth is my Shiva staff, my Trident. In my right hand appears my drum, and I start to make a slow steady beat.

Deeper and deeper I feel the depth of the beat, first in my heart, then beating through my whole body, rocking me gently backwards and forwards. I open my eyes…

The fire grows high, the flames rising, dancing, licking the roof of the cave.

to be continued ….01 Mt Arunachala

Harbouring Halloween erotic poem

Harbouring Halloween 

It was the dark of the moon
the dark goddess came out
and she wore white lace
to seduce and bewitch with a pout.

She danced to her inner music
and he watched, in a trance
while she turned and twirled
weaving her erotic love dance.

Then they undressed each other
slowly, languidly, with the tide
this except for her lacy G string,
which he gently moved aside.

Revelling in her juiciness
he licked and teased her venus mound
while she leaned to find handholds
on the Nav. table and all round.

Then, with her legs in the air
and her body open wide
the dark of the moon reflected in his eyes
as he slid gently inside.

The yacht rocked gently
under the Horn-ed moon
the lapping of the sea water
kept rhythm with their sexy tune.

Did anyone in the marina hear
their moans of passionate sex?
Her quivers and gasps of ecstasy?
His tremendous climax?

Perhaps only the fish
under the boat’s keel
sheltering from the storm
out in the Keppel sea….

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Seduction Bliss – erotic poem

Seduction Bliss 

The goddess in her power
chooses her consort
invite him into her pleasure temple
arouses his sexual fire. 

She pleasures him from behind
body slides joining energy
with ecstatic sighs and mutual movement. 

He turns over
slowly languidly
but rising and antic ……. i …… pation
and lies there, expecting more. 

She feels his heart is full
overflowing energy expressed in kisses
she spreads it outward
his strong masculine energy mirrors its expansion. 

She pleasures with her hands
stroking, teasing, tempting and spreading
his rhythm and undulations are stronger
she blisses him in many ways. 

Feeling the time is right
she strokes up his legs
slowly teasing his thighs, his cock
to spread full length in united undulation. 

Slipping and sliding on oily sensations
moving in harmony to the universal rhythm
lovingly connected on lots of levels
we join as one in the light. 

Tingling and shaking together
we are dancing in ecstasy
taste touch smells sight and sound
the music lifts us higher. 

Finally we explode
with ecstatic pleasure
oozing out every pore…
slowly returning to this place
satiated relaxed with enjoyment and bliss!

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Pleasure Dance – erotic poem

Pleasure dance

Starting slowly

your kiss tingles and teases

tentatively

nibbled nipples

expand the feeling

of arousal

warm glow spreads down

my body

engulfing all with sensitivity.

The circuit is joined

between 2 nipples and Cleo

reports of pleasure

begin flow to the music.

As your tongue flicks

the waves of exquisiteness

peak again and again

I drown in ecstasy.

Fingers explore and expand

Scouting and surveying

arousal becomes a need

“I want you–now!”

As I writhe in anticipation

feeling the tentative head

hesitating at my entrance

then plunging in – to fill me

Into the smooth sensuous satin

of my juicy receptive warmth

your hot throbbing strength in

the thrusting rhythm of love.

As we dance all over the bed

sending pleasure back and forth

bodies locked in enjoyment

of the pleasure dance.

Couple tantric red Shiva Shakti dance artbyMarkLee

 

Bliss – erotic poem

He teased me with his tongue

tempted me

thrilled me

touched me with fingertips

until I shuddered and twitched with pleasure.

Tips of tongues

rimming lips

fingertips caressing the bare skin

of my arms

my waist, hips

my inner thighs.

My juices flowed

sweet dampness in my knickers

my lips quivered and opened

as he circled on the edge

teasing me again.

His lips licked my nipples

and sucked them sweetly

my moans and sighs escaped

into the night.

In his fingers wandered down

to explore my sweet wetness

stimulating and teasing

bringing on waves of pleasure.

Our kisses joined the circle

Electric energy flowing both ways

our energies soared together

United with the rapture of love.

And then he knelt on top

so he could lick me better

and I sucked him all the way

sweetly joined and spiritual ecstasy

I lost track of the number of orgasms

cresting on peaks of bliss

we moaned and breathed together

radiating out from our kiss.

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Khajuraho couple by Ally Tantra

Tantric Surfing – erotic poem

Tantric surfing

On a hot summer night, when the moon is full

And you can’t sleep, what do you do?

Toss and turn, read a book?

Masturbate or make love or have a look?

Sigh at the golden moon

Run barefoot in the grass

Feeling the cool damp air

Hearing the air conditioners whine

Smelling the freshness of night

As the stars twinkle and re-appear.

And softly with feather strokes

The hand caresses my eager skin

First hesitant and tentative

With gentle finger tips on my arms

Then firmer palm strokes

Up and down my legs and back

Circling round my buttocks

And gently stroking my hair.

Teasing my thighs

Circling my stomach

Exploring the sensitive bits under my upper arms

Awakens my senses

Inflames my desires.

Soft kisses all over my back

Trailing along my side

Deliciously stimulating my sexuality

Gently licking circles around my breasts

So that my nipples are softly sucked

Bring forth moans of pleasure.

As my body arches with need

Fingers finally find my wetness

Circling softly around my clit

With two fingers

Then up and down with three finger salute

As the juices start to run.

Rising and falling on waves of pleasure

My breath gets louder

Orgasms come and go

As my body vibrates to the rhythm

Begging for release.

on the edge

 Getting to the edge

But not going all the way over

Staying on the edge of pleasure –

Multiple orgasms

Without release

Relaxing the tension

Expanding the ecstasy

For as long as possible….

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Tantric breath sound smell

Taste and imagery

Combines with silken touch

To take me to the pinnacle

And finally over

Coasting the waves to the beach

Lying naked on the sand

Satiated my needs

For this moment.

by Ally 19 January 2014

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